My sister dated a guy when they were both 16. They broke up 5 months later and are now 22 years old. I'm 3 1/2 years younger. They haven't spoken in years because he hates her. He's also my best friend. I stay over at his house all the time. We've made out a few times.
I like him a lot and I dont know if its ok. It's not like they had sex. They dont even talk. My sister claims that if her and her fiance break up, shes going to try to get back with him and that upsets me.
Is it wrong to like him and hook up with him?
2006-08-14 22:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if their broke up then its over if shes living in fantasy land she should grow up if he hates her she must know it. It doesnt sound like she loves her fiance either. If you two want to hook up thats your business discuss with him how he feels about it. Be honest with him about everything, as long as hes not using you to get back at youir sister. Tell your sister the truth your not a child, be sure your not the meat in the sandwich. If you 2 decide to hook up you and him tell your sister together you can then observe the contact between them.
2006-08-14 22:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you should not be so close to your sisters ex. THey both must still have feelings for her...why would he hate he for 5 months of dating? and she obviously still feels something for him. TO keep this from turning into a Jerry Springer episode, you need to tlak to your sister, ask her how she feels about you dating him, and tell her how you feel...otherwise, he's going to be screwing both of you behind your backs.
2006-08-15 05:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yahooligan85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen!
Is your relationship with your sister(I don't know how close ya ll are?) worth that of this guy to get between ya'll?
sit and think
2006-08-15 05:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nup u shud b ok ae az long az u go and talk to yer susta bowt it if it getz ne serious!gud luk
2006-08-15 05:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~*cRiSsAnGeLlUrVa*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good policy. never date an ex of a friend.
2006-08-15 05:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by ricky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were on your place, i wudn't date him because i know it'll hurt her.. i mean, she may seem fine with it but deep inside it'll hurt her..
or just think about it this way, if u were on her place will you get hurt if your lil sis dated ur ex...
2006-08-15 05:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by crestfallen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of this situation. trouble is the only thing that lies ahead.
2006-08-15 05:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by jbme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Na let her know what you are up to and then go for it enven if she doesn't like it.
2006-08-15 05:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋