We dated for a month before she broke up with me about 4 months ago. She said she wasn’t ready for an emotional relationship and she wanted us to be just friends. I was attached to her and I really couldn’t see myself being her friend and watch her go out with other guys, it was going to be too painful for me because I loved her, so I decided to cut off contact with her so that I can get over her. It has now been 2 months since we last spoke or saw each other and I miss her, clearly time didn’t make me get over her because I still love her and I feel this urge to talk to her again to find out how she's doing, but i think she'll be angry with me for ignoring her.
What should I do? Should I call her and ask her how she is, how she feels and how she’s doing or shouldn’t I?
2006-08-14 22:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by lacoste 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
call her. if she's mad try to explain what was going on and how you feel about her. i would stay away from the "l" word until you know how she feels. just let her know you care a lot about her and just wanted to know how she was doing. maybe you guys can get to be friends again and possibly start a new relationship.
2006-08-14 22:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her..just normal chat..hi how have things been with u and stuff...and the usual guys dialouge.."i was busy with stuff from school/uni/work)"
dont even think of takin the conversation to the breakup and all those that happened before...
have fun buddy...there are lots more fishes in the sea..
its hard in the beg..but if u really want to move ahead...start dating..
start networking, if u dont find anyone near ur place..
www.hi5.com
www.orkut.com
atleast kick start with these...
i mean dont expect anything much in return...1 after another...after sometime, u wouldnt be having any problem, if one girl cuts off communictaion with u...u'll be having a backup always...
be a player...he he i was just kidding abt the 'player' thing..have fun
2006-08-15 05:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by J i t h i n . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should go to her and talk it out if you don,t tell her how will she know unless she is a mind reader. That is the only way you can began to heal. Time does make a difference. And there has been more than enough time between you to. Go for it . If you really love her .
2006-08-15 05:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by boodababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Gonna have to do what YOU feel is Right in Your Heart. I Can Sympathize with You, I Know It's hard! But, If You Care, like You Say, Then, Call her, and say Hi! Tell her, that you just wanted to see if she is alright. Hopefully, that will give you the Peace of mind You Need. Take-Care!
2006-08-15 05:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by trisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have said don't call her but you really loved her and i can empathise with you. the only problem is that you cut off all contact with her, which is a bit of problem. maybe you should try emailing her first, just asking her how she's going, not how she feels, then it's her choice whether or not she wants to respond.
2006-08-15 05:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call just to ask how she is. My husband and I stopped seeing each other twice before we were married.
2006-08-15 05:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't call her. It seems a great waste of time. Don't look back, look forward to see the huge life.
2006-08-15 05:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Deli Ozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it give her a call it wont kill u the worst thing could be she don't want to be your friend anymore but you will never know till you call so pick up your phone and start dialing....i wish you the best
2006-08-15 05:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by nybx28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her so that you will know where you truly stand
Do not allow a possible love to pass you by
2006-08-15 05:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and porpose to her. if she say no. shes not good enough to even think about not ready for emotional relationship. for me if someone says that to me i would have forget about that person its just plain clear shes not interested.
2006-08-15 05:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋