i love my girlfriend alot but it makes me feel bad when i see all of my other friends taht fell in love with girls and they r "gaga" for each other. but my girlfriend isnt like that and i want it! my girlfriend told me she loved me but after i told her about this she say she dont no if she loves me. she thinks she does but isnt sure so now i dont have the feeling of a girl going "gaga" and i lost the love from her i have no clue wat 2 do!! was it wrong for me 2 want that feel of her being crazy about me?? cuzz im like that for her! so does that meen she never loved me?? i think im going crazy i needs some help!!
2006-08-14 22:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by Mr.PERU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so now that she has told you she is not sure if she loves you, you need to check your feelings at the door. if you keep your heart out there, you're allowing her to do what she will with it. there is so much time for finding that someone to be gaga over who will return that love back. don't worry about not having someone either, cause having good people, such as friends and family, is what is really important...that special someone will find her way to you eventually
2006-08-14 22:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by kristin h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you're not crazy. NO, it's not wrong for you to want that "gaga" feeling back from her. She was in the wrong for misleading you! It sounds as though, she's not a very trustworthy person. You obviously are a good person and deserve someone that feels the same way about you. You will find that person, it's just not her!
And to answer your question about her loving you....she could have loved you but she wasn't in love with you. Big difference! I love my best friend, but I'm in love with my man. There's the "gaga" difference.
2006-08-15 05:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I need a little more info....or things for you to answer....
1. How long have you been going out? It might be too soon in the relationship for her to be "gaga" or..you might have run out of creativity...treat her to a night out on the town..make her feel like a princess..so she has something to brag to her friends about!
2. Are you a romantic...do you show her that you are "Gaga" over her...? Like monkey see...monkey do.....I love romance that goes in a relationship..and my husband isn't....sometimes opposites attract...but trying to teach him how to be a romantic..lol...
3. Talk to each other about your relationship....You can make your own..pro's and cons before the conversation.....what you like about your relationship..and what you don't....then talk about it with her..anything that you are unhappy about...
4. If it is over..please don't say...lets be friends....tell her what you are looking for instead..and hope that she has good luck in the future...etc..no hurt feelings between the both of you...BUT...don't burn your bridges before you cross them......
Good luck!
2006-08-15 05:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she doesn't like being pressured and may feel that you are smothering her with attention. Don't act so desperate for her love, it's a real turn off and will eventually drive her away from you. Find some type of activity to involve yourself in and don't be so available.
2006-08-15 05:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to want your girlfriend to be "gaga" as you put it over you...that is what love does to you. I think you should break if off and find someone who is crazy about you...
2006-08-15 05:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah... step back and take a deep breath...
don't put pressure on her (girls hate that), just be cool.
most people fall in love and get broken hearted quite a few times before they finally meet a person they can share many years of their life with.
and remember, nothing lasts forever.
2006-08-15 05:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to her....
i dun tink she is crazy.,...
if she luvs u n u luv her dun worry, one big prob is if ya friendz will spread around da skool or sth....
wats "gaga" anywayz
2006-08-15 05:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need someone who feels the same way as you do - she is not the one - you will know her when you meet her!!
2006-08-15 05:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by kingpusskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel about her.... and if she dont like you then ure gonna have to let her go.
2006-08-15 05:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by I need Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋