2006-08-14 22:22:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
in person till last year i never came across any gay people.i might have but u cant make out by their looks.
well last year when i was doing my internship in a garment industry,i came across a guy who was gay
when he came evry one started signing me to notice him.
well i found it strange, but his way of talking to guys , made me laugh for a moment ,but later i felt bad ,just because he was born like that u dont have any right to laugh over him.he too is god's creation.after that whenever he used come to visit our department i just behaved normal,and my colegues also learnt a lesson to respect,though they never told me abt it.but i noticed a lot of difference.
2006-08-14 22:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you found out he's gay, has he tried anything on you?
Why should anything change, personally I have found that in 90 out of 100 people that are gay I have been able to trust them more than my straight friends or people that I know.
I am straight BTW.. Look the fact that he is gay really has or should have no impact on your working relationship, if there are things you don't feel comfortable about why don't you take the time to sit down and talk to the person. You will probabl find that all of your concerns are unfounded.
Good Luck.
2006-08-14 22:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by jackocomp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the fact that you now know he's gay. No, nothing has changed. He's still the same guy you've been talking too and working with for the last year, what does his sexuality have anything to do with it now? No, yer not going to get cooties either, so don't start stressing yerself about...the what if's.
2006-08-14 22:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Faye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you mentioned the prom replaced into great. isn't that each and each women dream. You mentioned liking him no longer loving him, so how could desire to somebody experience betrayed. i know this guy, he waited till you had a boyfriend to tell you so as that he did no longer harm in case you have been nonetheless involved in him. As to your background, a buddy is the two a buddy or no longer. I handle a individual the comparable way they handle me, feels like like he has alot of know for you.
2016-12-17 11:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would change? Did he hit on you? I'm pretty sure he didn't. He is still the same person you met last year, the only thing that has changed is how you think of him, and is that really fair?
2006-08-14 22:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Injun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! My oldest friend in the world is as gay as a pitched tent and I love him dearly.... Being gay is not important, its the heart and mind within that matters honey
2006-08-15 00:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by trixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has changed. You are just aware of it now. This may lead to your being more aware of his body language and tone of voice and other subtle communications. You'll get used to having this new knowledge about him and soon it will be no more important to you than knowing his favorite football team.
2006-08-14 22:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have a problem dealing with homo-phobics who might turn on you for hanging out with him, people can be really hurrtful - it maybe best to chill the friendship a wee bit..
2006-08-14 22:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you know he's gay, that's what's changed.
2006-08-14 22:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. He's still the same person.
2006-08-14 22:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋