We dated for a month before she broke up with me about 4 months ago. She said she wasn’t ready for an emotional relationship and she wanted us to be just friends. I was attached to her and I really couldn’t see myself being her friend and watch her go out with other guys, it was going to be too painful for me because I loved her, so I decided to cut off contact with her so that I can get over her. It has now been 2 months since we last spoke or saw each other and I miss her, clearly time didn’t make me get over her because I still love her and I feel this urge to talk to her again to find out how she's doing, but i think she'll be angry with me for ignoring her.
What should I do? Should I call her and ask her how she is, how she feels and how she’s doing or shouldn’t I?
2006-08-14 22:04:40 · 11 answers · asked by lacoste 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should call her. You did the right thing. If she WAS upset, she understands why you did what you did regardless of what comes out of her mouth. She's probably wondering how you are, too. It's NEVER too late for a friend! It's never too late for anything really as long as you're still living.
Peace.
2006-08-14 22:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say this but that sounds like the most used brake up line there is out there. I was with a guy for about 6 months and we broke up about a half a year after we broke up because i still loved him and couldnt get over him. Then I found him online and played a joke on him by not letting him know it was me. I talked to him he guessed it was me after 2 min and we talked a little. I only hear from him every once in a while now but thats fine because all i needed was real closer. I am now over him and have found the man of my dreams and we are getting married next year so I hope you have a similar ending.
2006-08-15 05:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ariey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it depends if that was the true reason for the break up. I hope your not to young and trying to get hung up on one girl and the same for her. Live life and figure out who you are first. Get your education and realize who you are. I would call and just say hi that you were thinking about her and ask if you can go out as friends. You have to be friends before you can be anything else. Take the time and find out the real her. Alot of guys don't take the time. they want in the pants and then think about the rest later. Its alot more than a pretty face. Be there to support her in her times of need emotionally. She will thank you for this. Us women tend to be more emotionally wired than you guys that most don't have a clue. Good luck! Be patient, I know its hard to Just broke up with some one been with for 3 years I didn't find out the real person until later take it slow!
2006-08-15 05:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Alice K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel one more time then she will know why you cut her off. Your heartbreak will heal eventually. The questions is on yourself. Do you want to love her and suffer as a friend ? or start new life and look for your soulmate?
Relationship is all about communication and when you find your soulmate, you know it, because the relationship is easy and effortless. Good luck.
2006-08-15 05:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Elli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call and don't put any pressure on her. Keep the conversation bland and don't as her anything personal; you were just thinking about her. Let her direct the conversation and don't ask her about any guys that she has been out with. The KISS principle applies here, Keep It Simple Stupid.
2006-08-15 05:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by iko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER too late for anything. Maybe she's still single, maybe she still has feelings for you, maybe she's still hoping, or maybe she has found a new guy, maybe she's in a relationship now, maybe she's married..you'll never know unless you call. Its not you that ultimately decides. If you're fated to be together at least someday, you will be together. But its you who heightens up the probability of that happening.
2006-08-15 05:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends talk to each other or did she say that to be kind.
Love that is 1 sided is a total bust.
Find someone who loves YOU.
2006-08-15 05:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kirk M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But do exactly that: just ask her how she is doing. Anything looking like pressure or stalking will destroy all your chances...
2006-08-15 05:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cristian Mocanu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would. You will be able to sense how she feels, and she will tell you what you need to hear.
2006-08-15 15:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a call man....just call
2006-08-15 06:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Magix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋