I met someone on here and I am being blamed for not trusting this person. I feel like this person has multiple accounts and is playing me. By posting on different accounts.
What would you do? He claims he is innocent and it is all in my head. I want to trust but it is hard.
Now give it to me.
2006-08-14 21:59:24 · 20 answers · asked by Broken heart ♥ 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, you have every right to have doubts, its stupid not to! You met a person "online" .. anyone can make up all sorts of lies wether out of malice or just plain fun, and u can't be sure who's for real and who's not! and HE knows that, so he has no right to blame you for not trusting him, coz he can have doubts about u too ... he should be able to understand how you're feeling. the fact that he's guilt tripping you isn't in his favor!
But in the end it's up to you to decide! Good luck!
2006-08-14 22:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just asking this on here shows you have doubts and that is a good thing. Go with that! :))
Don't trust him but rather trust your instincts about this situation. Maybe he is Innocent or maybe he is playing you. Something is telling you to be uncomfortable so I would drop him. Change your account if possible.
The Internet can be a dangerous place with many people who aren't what they seem. It's nearly impossible to tell what a person's intentions are.
Better to meet someone in person but still trust your instincts even then!
Good luck to you!!
2006-08-15 22:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by .. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know someones intention at the other line. however, if the other person is quite serious about you, he might quite be offended for not trusting him but he can't blame you for that. most of the people online have multiple accounts. if you think he's playing you then follow the red light. but if you have kinda established a bond with him, you just have to be honest to each other. i would not say don't trust anyone online because there are stil people out there who are honest. (i'll count myself, if i may). you just have to be careful on the information you say on the person and keep your emotions on guard, so it would not give you too much pain in future heartbreaks.
as for your doubts, just keep it there and soon you'll find out what's it all about.
2006-08-15 06:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust no one, tell no one any personal details...there are a lot of nutters out there..
You are right to distrust him, assume your worst fears are true...don't get sucked in...
What would I do? ....either never speak to him again (which is very easy) waste his time, mess about with his head over the web but then get bored very quickly and dump him and the idea entirely. THEN change my account details...I WOULD BECOME THE EMPORER OF CHINA (mwah mwah mwahhhhh)
I didn't know you could do multiple accounts by the way, I might do it anyway...
2006-08-15 05:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he's innocent. All of this is make-believe. Go out and make some real friends.
And as I said on your other thread, trust your instincts.
2006-08-15 05:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Internet is a bad place to meet someone. Leave them. You only know what they tell, and they could be lying. You never know. Moral of the lesson, don't attach to people on the internet. He could be skeezing on you, and you have no way of knowing. Find a real person.
2006-08-15 05:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. A lot of shady people out there. There must be a valid reason you feel that way, Time will tell,
2006-08-15 05:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babe this is not the place to meet someone, its full of weirdo's from all over the world, if he's in your country or state be very careful, trust no-one....
2006-08-15 05:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
l'm sure there are lots of great people on the net.... but I think there are also lots of bad ones.... my advice proceed with caution if you must, but I would look at other places to meet people.
By the way.... your nik is cool!!
2006-08-15 06:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your head is already telling you that something about this person is making you uncomfortable. There's enough decent people....don't mess with trouble.
2006-08-15 05:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by GoldnHart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋