I know this is going to sound foolish but please help?

Question

I met someone online here and I am not to sure of how much I should trust this person. Have you ever experienced this and how would you handle it?

Sometimes I feel like he is honest and other times I feel like he is using different accounts to play games with me.

Thank all of you for the great advice.

Answer 1

when in doubt get out,if your having these thoughts block him off you list and stay away from him.

Answer 2

Trust your instincts. I met my husband online, but he was one of many who I chatted with over a period of several years. by the time I got to him, I had a pretty intense screening process that made most men turn around and run and not look back. My husband never once winced. We only met in public for the first month. We took it kind-of slow I guess. His mom thinks we rushed into marriage, but noone else seems to think so, as we were well into our 30s when we met. Another clue that a guy is serious: can he tell you he loves you without it translating into he "wants to jump your bones"?

Answer 3

How can you trust someone you don't even know and haven't met in person? Trust your instincts instead. Remember, this guy is behind his computer screen and can say anything he wants to say to you just so he could play you. If he really bothers you, you can always just put him on ignore or block him. Untiil then, take everything he says with a grain of salt and just be careful.

Answer 4

well from my past relationship on line i wouldn't trust any one
go with your feeling use your common seance and dont think with your heart.you know you are never going to meet this person the last long distance relationship i was in we broke it off after a year that a lot of ground work you seem like a really nice lady i would hate to see you get really hurt like i did.

Answer 5

Darling, most of them are liars and do what you said above: playing games for fun. You don't know how to trust him, just let things go and watch out what you say or do while being online.

Answer 6

I've heard of this being done to someone else on another site. He was found (by the moderators) to have used different accounts to construct arguments with her that he - the 'main person' - could use to gain her confidence as he'd be sympathetic.

Trust your instincts.

Answer 7

Don't rush and don't trust people too easily. Weird people can be very clever and manipulative.

That doesn't mean nothnig good could come out of it, my sister and her husband have met over the net and they just had their first baby now. But I still think you should take it easy and be careful.

Answer 8

Chatting etc is to be considered as fun & should not become part of real life...

Dont be stupid enough to trust anybody on the internet

Answer 9

i think you need to remember all the warnings about meeting people online and take it slow and easy and listen to your instincts. there are a lot of good people online but you just never know if you have met one of them or not.

Answer 10

why don't you use different accounts and play games with him. Try to find the truth and then if he's only playing games with you.........block him.

Answer 11

i think you're getting serious too fast. most people on here lie to make themselves look better, so don't sweat it cause most likely he is. but who cares because if he has to lie about his computer personalities then what kind of MAN is he?