i am 17 and my bf is 16 we have a 6 month old son and we have some question about alot of stuff.why doesnt my bf want to have sex with me even when he is horny?should we not have sex since we have a 6 month old?why does my bf get horny from the word love?is it illegal for me to date him when he turns 17 and then i will be 18 would it still be illeagle if we dont have sex till he is 18?why does my bf never want to kiss me since i had our son 6 months ago?and i have more so IM me to help me with thoses if u would like.
2006-08-14 21:46:37 · 16 answers · asked by Gerard Way Is HOT 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-08-14 21:50:11 · update #1
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2006-08-14 21:51:30 · update #2
PLEASE HELP ME I REALLY NEED HELP
2006-08-14 21:54:31 · update #3
Please I Need Real Answers
2006-08-14 21:59:09 · update #4
Leave the looser and get with meh, ill even take care of your kid
2006-08-14 21:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Complex420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Worry So Much About Your Boyfriend Just Do What Is Best For Your Son And Yourself ... If He Is Not Into You Then Move On With Your Life ... You Will Find A Guy Who Appreciates You And Make Sure He Is At Least A Good Role Model For Your Son ... But Leave This Guy He Just Seems To Immature To Be A Boyfriend Or Better Yet Even A Father To Your Son ..
2006-08-21 17:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by My Kissable Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know much about the laws in your country. So On the Illegal age story Im not sure! But this advice may help! Sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him discussing the issue you have!
Ask him to his face and look him in the eyes and ask him if he loves you or is he just wasteing your time! Explain to him that he also has responsibillaties towards you and the child! Tell him to stop being a child and do the right thing and take responsibillaty for his actions. Also tell him that you require him to love you as a woman and you also have needs. You need him to comfort you in every situation. If he does'nt want to listen. Then you have to leave him! Sorry but this is real life and welcome to parenthood! It is not all easy! We all learn every day something new! So be the woman and talk to your Boyfriend like a grown up. I also suggest to go seek some professional help. There are lots of counselers out there just waiting to help!
May God Bless you!
2006-08-15 05:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by etienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a condition that men get after their partner has a baby it is somewhat like post pardom depression and it does effect the sex drive and as far as you worrying about him all the time you need to start thinking of yourself and that baby try giving him some space and see if he comes out of it he may need some time to adjust to the idea that he is now responsible for another life and he may not want to be with you anymore for fear of another baby but that is a good idea no more babies till you are both older and you should seek some counseling there are many places that can help you if you need more help you can contact me by e-mail or I'm good luck
2006-08-20 22:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by just_a_fat_chick_9669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have obviously made a mistake! I think that he doesn't want to have sex is because he is frighten that he will have another baby with you. I think that the thought of you as a mother turns him off. Witch is stupid I know. But that is how man's brain work lol. I suggest you talk to him. Because i honestly need more information about your condition to answer this question!
2006-08-15 04:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be asking others because, no one can really explain how he feels about you but, HIM. You should take the time to ask him. In the process, you might receive some hurtful or unexpecting answers but, Love can sometimes hurt; but the best LOve is hOnEst/ truthful love. When he finally tells you about his feelings, you will GrOw from the response in the long run; even if your feelings were hurt.
2006-08-21 16:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by pink81088 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1. Go to Welfare office.
Step 2. Collect welfare check and guv'ment cheese.
Step 3. Find a nice little shack infested with rats and roaches to settle down in
Step D. You are screwed.
2006-08-15 04:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rated Raw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too late for thinking
these thing u want to think before having birth
no help needed
just take care ur child
2006-08-15 05:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bless your heart sweetie you guys are still kids trying to live in a adult world . I feel for you 2 he has a lot on him and so do you sex should be the least of your worries how are you guys gonna pay for this child are you gonna finish school? there's more to worry about than sex ...........I will be praying for you guys........
2006-08-19 14:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by littlebitty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, DON'T WORRY ABOUT SEX. YOU NEED TO TRYING TO CONCENTRATE ON GETTING YOURSELF AN EDUCATION.. I GUARANTEE THAT MY TAX DOLLARS ARE SUPPORTING YOU. STOP THINKING ABOUT SEX AND TRY TO BECOME A CONTRIBUTING MEMBER OF SOCIETY... GET A TRADE OR DEGREE AND LEARN SPANISH SO YOU CAN MAKE SOMETHING OF YOURSELF.. U HAVE YOU WHOLE LIFE TO THINK AND WORRY ABOUT SEX..... PLUS PLEASE USE PROTECTION, USE THE SHOT, PILL, PATCH AND A CONDOM SO THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN
2006-08-22 16:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by casz1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋