Y does my man always look at my legs during intercouse. I feel very self concious its getting annoying cus he does it all the time.should I tell him or not.
2006-08-14 21:32:27 · 65 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
He probably has a leg fetish (i.e., he gets more aroused looking at your legs). If he is admiring your legs and enjoying them, why would that be a problem for you?
2006-08-14 21:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of various things, why don't you openly talk to your partner and find out the correct reason he has for doing this. My belief is once that you are open with your partner sexually, about your likes, wants, and needs you will have a total enjoyable and better sex life.
Maybe your partner has a fetish for legs (long or short) or it may just be that you have very nice legs. Or it may be that he is looking at something else? You will never know until you ask him about it.
However, if he has a fetish for legs and you tell him that its annoying- this will hurt him and hurt how he looks at you. So it would will better for you and him to talk openly about it first.
2006-08-22 04:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really bothers you, then yes, it's okay to talk about it. You'll probably find out he's just a 'leg' man. We all have our little preferences. I wouldn't be offended. If he's staring you down and still turned on, it has to be a good thing. Another suggestion would be to turn the lights off when you guys are getting down and 'dirty', that way neither of you is seeing much of anything. You can relax and enjoy yourself more which in turn means he's benefiting more and a lot happier with you. The main thing here is HAVE FUN and ENJOY YOURSELF!
2006-08-21 15:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, you should be asking *him*. It's scary to ask questions like that, because you don't already know the answer and can't predict what he'll say, but it's better to know than to guess or feel bad.
And I agree with the rest of the responders on this point: ask well before or after intercourse, and not during. Nothing kills the mood faster than asking questions like that when at least one of you is trying to be intimate and emotionally vulnerable.
2006-08-21 04:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by deputyindigo@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing. I have bigger legs because that's where all my fat is stored and he always used to look at them when we were having sex. I was very self concious I thought he was thinking about how fat I was while looking at them. Anyway, I confronted him and it turned out that he found my legs incredibly sexy and couldn't stop himself from looking.
Believe me, it's probably the same in your case. Guys are visual creatures, they just love to look!
2006-08-14 21:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a leg fetish... some guys are attracted to certain parts of a female's body, so you never know... and besides, he's a guy, you're a woman... and you two are having sex! Of course he's gonna be looking at your body... you have nothing to feel self-conscious about, miss lady, trust me!
2006-08-14 21:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different men are fascinated by different things.maybe he loves ur legs.ur name suggests ur an indian.indian men are generally turned on by thick thighs and legs.maybe thats the case with him.but if u r uncomfortable with it,tell him.Actually sex is enjoyed more if both the partners are enjoying it.since u r annoyed,u shud tell him but not during sex(men hate to be interrupted at that time).but talk about it with him
2006-08-14 21:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jitendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice--relax. Your man probably finds them attractive--and thinks of your legs as a turn on...my boyfriend does the same thing with my tattoo on my back....men like to have "focal points"...You can tell him if you want-but I guarantee the reaction will be that he finds them sexy.
2006-08-21 13:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt looking at your legs and maybe somewhere else down there. either way just talk to him it shouldnt be that hard you have sex with him. just ask him why he does it if you start to b@#$% and right off the bat tell him you dont like it then he will get fustrated and upset
2006-08-14 21:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer that with some authority I'd have to know what position you are in.
If it's the missionary position I think B is right - he's not looking at your legs.
Thanks for the great question.
2006-08-14 21:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋