Im married with two kids, husband doesnt love me forever.thats why i falling with love with this guy. He promised me he will lookafter my kids. me2 love him very much. if i leave him he will kill himself. we had sex several times. i need to go with him. we decided to go abroad.
2006-08-14 21:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by anudil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then give divorce and go.
take care for kids
2006-08-14 21:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that some people always want to take the easy way out when having marital problems? There are several things wrong with this picture. The most obvious is that you cheated on your husband. If you were so unhappy with your spouse, why didn't you
just get a divorce first before jumping into another bandwagon? Secondly, you are eloping with someone you barely know who could turn out to be just as bad, if not worse, than your husband. Third, his threat of killing himself if you leave him is disturbing enough and I'm pretty sure it was just his way of controlling you. I am NOT saying you should ignore it but if he is this dependent, perhaps he needs professional help. Fourth, if this is the man you want to be with, have the decency to get a divorce from your husband first before running off with him. Last but not least, your first priority should be your children. How old are they? How do they feel about being away from their daddy? Remember this is your life and your children's life you're messing with. You would be wise to think twice, if not a hundred times about this.
2006-08-15 04:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What You are looking for don't have legs just d..k with no future!
You grow up to have kids and yours husband was OK.
Maybe you should look for more excitement like used to be
when you've been making the kids. Look back - blow him do something to get the sex life beater. Get the love back.
I don't understand "doesn't love me forever" who is guilty of it.
Nothing is forever as is today - You have to work hard to keep anything of it.
I can promise you apples on palm tree too.
If somebody tell me "I kill myself if you live me" must be no brained, - terrorize me - whats the ball sh...t is it.
Go and shut yourself if your life mean nothing - you deserve it boy
If you decided go abroad remember:
1 He never gonna be Father for the kids because he isn't,
2 Is no return to situation like now - maybe your husband
gonna hate you forever or never rally forgive/forged it...
I wish You from my heart the best .
I do not want after few years question "my lover doesn't love me forever" is true or not?
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2006-08-15 05:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a ****** up situation, I tell you. And isn't that great , you got yourself a suicidal one to cheat with. Well guess what? 99.9% he is not going to kill himself. Maybe this guy's feelings for you is that intense. But he is using a bad technique to express his feelings and to persuade you to join him.
And you are awful. I can't stand cheaters.
I know not all relationships work out. People break up and move on because they all deserve to be happy.
But why do people have to cheat? Why not end it with the one you are with and then move on? That includes not screwing around or flirting.
Whatever you do, you are wrong if you move and take your children away from your husband.
Your children come first, so everthing you do will affect them. Their dad has a right to raise them as much as you. So don't think it is right for you to "RUN AWAY".
Handle it like an adult. The best in the end is keeping things mutual, for kids' sake.
2006-08-15 04:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you make this bold move you need to ask yourself if its worth living the true father of your kids to another man who with time will get tired of the sweet children.By the way have you tried solving the pending issues of your marriage if not pliz try you never know it can work out. I tend to believe a guy who goes around sleeping with a married woman has more than what meets the eye, so pliz dear take extreme caution before ruining your marriage at the same time your children remain fatherless.
2006-08-15 04:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by pretoria_fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you get married to someone who doesnt love you?well i advise you thread with care because the guy may turn out to be like ur husband after a while.think!think!think!before you act.Dont fall into the same trap.ask yourself why it has to be so then if the best answer you get is to go ahead,then go thru with a divorce.
2006-08-15 04:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you decided to go abroad, what the hell are you posting this question for? how long do you think he'll put up with your kids? let me tell you: until he finds someone else to bang who has no kids!
if you are really unhappy in your marriage, talk with your husband and do things right. don't screw with your kids' futures.
2006-08-15 04:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, the grass is not always greener on the other side, all marriages go through a "stale" period, you have to remember its not all about you anymore, your focus should be on what is best for your children, and you have to stop and think what kind of values this man has if he is willing to have a relationship with you when you really arent in a position to be having one, good luck
2006-08-15 04:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by msls31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what is true or not? Your affair?......The only thing I see is you and your kids are going abroad with this guy. And you are married to someone else.
2006-08-15 04:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on what are you talking , the same may not be there after a year he may start neglecting yr kids , be careful . just for the lust of sex , why you want to spoil the kids career
2006-08-15 05:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by KAMALESH K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby now its not about u or him .its about ur kids.saying is different 4m actions.whatif he wont luv ur kids.bcoz this is the reality.if 1 day hell hav his own kid in his lap he's bound to get partial wid urs.thnk thousand times b4 making a move.bcoz the world is too hard to b believed
2006-08-15 04:12:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋