I really like this guy and we have been going out for like a year and a half.We have almost everything in common and we agree on everything, exept for the fact that he wants to have sex but i am a bit nervous, because i am still a virgin, as my title says.I want him to be like easy because i don't want to be hurt.How do i tell him?It is kind of embarrassing since he has expeirience and i don't.
2006-08-14 20:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ok here's the deal,
My wife was a virgin when we met. There is NOTHING a guy would rather hear from a girlfriend more than "I'm a virgin." You will make his lifetime. At that point, he will be more than willing to be careful if he is a cool guy. Have fun and make it a grand event together. hope that helps
2006-08-14 20:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Simple green is people! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything Johnny1 said; Also, if the guy really cares about you and respects you, he can practice self-control and wait for you until you are married. It's the safest thing to do physically and emotionally.
2006-08-15 03:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Fine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to wait till you are married.
It might be the respect thing, it might be psychological but statistics show that couples who wait till they are married have the lowest rate of divorce.
Ask what category you want to be in.
I suggest you save it for the guy who is willing to commit himself to building a life together.
2006-08-15 04:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and he will certainly accept you If he really loves you he will understand and respect your decision. If you stand to your decision to preserve your virginity, I take my hat off. You are a record holder!
2006-08-15 04:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by july 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be embarrassing but it's your best bet. Honesty is the key to a beautiful relationship.
2006-08-15 03:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider how much you value yourself
if he really respects and loves you he will marry you
why give yourself to a man who will not even be in your life in the near future
if he is worthwhile he can wait to marry you i
f he cannot wait and goes to find something else it shows you what he was looking for
2006-08-15 03:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, virginity you have only once!!!! sounds like you are un sure so keep it...it is sacred!!!! if he is true, he will wait, only time can tell, sad but true...i know at your age,time must feel like 4 ever!! hold out i know it is tough!....been there girl, hang tough!!
2006-08-15 03:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by stacy_lynn1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to thinking is he the man that you really loved?
if he is, you'll get the best experience with him..
ask him to be gentle and make it slowly..
and then..
it up to you..
2006-08-15 03:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Derrick84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, easy on the merchandise! this aint no chip'n' dale!
2006-08-15 03:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by supraman126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋