is it OK to have sex with some one 4 years older then u?

Question

i amost had sex with some one 4 years older then me. im 13

Answer 1

You are 13 and you are planning on having sex already?
WTF???
Where do you live? In the Amazonas?

Answer 2

what in Gods Blessed name are you do in the first place with some one whos 4yrs older then you.

I was 15 when I was raped, 15 when i had my "1st real relationship" and he was turned out to be 27 after telling me his 21 and he also was just got out on paroll.

Fact is there is nothing a young girl and a grown man have in comen but sex.

Point to you, you have no business being with a man that older then you. You don't need to haveing sex at all. Your little body is no where near ready to take on the pain of sex and I'm not talk physical, talking emotionally. Are you really ready to put yourself threw all that?

Answer 3

It is not a matter of is it ok or not, it is what you want, are you sure you want to have sex with him, is that what you really want? You are still 13 and I would suggest you think deep before doing it with a 17 year old, and ask yourself why does a 17 year old want to have sex with a 13 year old? I just think you're still too young and you have to think twice. Don't rush in to it, take your time. If you decide to do it just make sure it is safe, disease and pregnancy wise. But my advice is don't do it with a 17 year old guy, I have a feeling he is taking advantage of you, I am sure he can have sex with someone closer to his age, also are you sure he is 17 and not older? if he is older he could be jailed for that. Be careful.

Answer 4

Personally, I don't feel you're ready for sex at 13. I know I wasn't. And any 17-year-old guy who wants to have sex with you when you're only 13 has something wrong with him. I'm sorry, but you're barely a teenager...A guy with a normal mindset would never consider dating someone as young as you. He's a HS senior, correct? Yeah, that's gross. You're not even in high school and he'll be in college soon.

Think about your life and what you want before you sleep with someone who's obviously a little screwed up in the head. I'm not saying you're unattractive. You're probably a very pretty girl. I'm just saying it's wrong for him to be attracted to you as anything more than a friend.

Answer 5

You are too young to be thinking about having sex with anyone. He would be considered to be a rapist, as you are legally not able to make an informed decision about having a sexual relationship. Do not do it, you will regret it when you get older. He is using you, a high school age male should be dating young women of his own age, he is only trying to use you for sex. Have you discussed the use of condoms or other types of birth control. Have you discussed what responsibilities you will each have if you become pregnant. If you have not had any of these discussions, you are too young for the responsibility of a sexual relationship.

Answer 6

First of all, you are too young to be having sex. How would you like to be pregnant? You should be at the mall with your friends eating ice cream or french fries at the food court or seeing a movie at the movie theatre. Are you not interested in any form of activity? You will end up on the Maury Povich show! Smarten up or you will put your parents through so much grief. You have all the time in the world to whore around. Get an education because I do not want my tax dollars to go to your welfare!

Answer 7

having sex at 13 isn't very smart in general. just think... are you mature enough, stable enough, financially fit & stable enough to have a child? and if you were to abort it would you feel guilty for killing a childs life just to ensure you as a child could continue to grow up? With sex comes great responsibilities although greatly enjoyable for humans it should never be under-looked. I personally think that any older guy who is able to find a young girl sexually attractive is possibly no better than a pedofile.
If by law you are a child until 18 then wouldn't this almost apply to any adult guy---->PEDOPHILE-noun : an adult who is sexually attracted to children [syn: paedophile]pedophile

Answer 8

depending on where you live that 17 year old is considered an adult. my suggestion to you is dont do it and if he tries to pressure you i suggest you find new friends your age. in a few months the 17 yr old will be 18 and can go to jail for sleeping with you. if u care about the person and dont want them to go to jail do them a favor and stay away, but most of all keep yourself safe, ur only 13 you shouldnt be thinking about having sex, your main concern should be gettting to high school then college.

Answer 9

if you are 13 it is NOT ok. it's called statitory rape, and they were using you. it is okay to have sex with someone 3 years older than you once you turn 18, but until then you need to stick to people your own age... you prolly should stop having sex and wait to mature a little bit anyways... maybe when you are 16 and can drive yourself to health department for std check up's, condoms, and birth control would be a better time to become sexually active.

Answer 10

Darlin'
Thirteen may be a bit young to be having sex with anyone.
I understand you have the feelings to share yourself with someone but just because you have the feelings does not mean you should act on them.
Without ever having seen you I know you are a beautiful person and you will be wanted by many.
Give yourself some time to get to know yourself before you give yourself to someone.
You are special.

Answer 11

it's okay to have sex with some 4 years older than you. but it's not okay to have sex at 13!