my husband wants to try annual sex?

Question

my husband want to try annual sex but im scared does it hurt alot of my friends said it hurt is there any easy way please help me any suggestions would be help ful thank you

Answer 1

I know you mean anal sex. It can hurt very bad if he doesnt know what hes doing. Use lots of ky and tons of foreplay, this will keep you mind off what hes trying to do, cause if he does it right by getting you all aroused, it wont hurt,at least it doesnt for me. A man cant just stick it in, it doesnt work that way. Tell him to rub or caress your body, kiss on your neck, what ever it takes to take your mind off of it.

Answer 2

OK, everyone's making jokes because you spelled "anal" as "annual", which means "once a year". But, I would avoid agreeing to anal sex, and I don't care how many people try to say it's normal. The flesh can rip, the muscles can be damaged, and if you don't use a condom there is a great risk of infection. I also think it's a very, very selfish thing for a man to ask since I'm sure he would not do something painful if you asked. If you point out that it's a homosexual turn-on, maybe that will scare him off. That makes most men very nervous.

Answer 3

Well I wouldn't do it for anything. Truthfully, I feel that if a guy wants anal, then he needs to find himself a man who enjoys it. I'm sure it must hurt, thats not what that part of the body was made for. There is a risk of injury. And I wouldn't let him do it, just for his own pleasure. If you can't please him in other ways, being that you are a woman, then there is a problem there. You let him do it once, that's all he'll ever want. Quit looking for ways to make it easier and less painfull, JUST SAY NO.

Answer 4

If done properly ANAL sex isn't too bad. If you are nervous you will automatically be more tense and it will be harder to do. Have him loosen you up some with his fingers first. I would also suggest using a vibrating bullet on low while he is trying to loosen you up, you will be more relaxed. Use A LOT of lube. Have him go very slow at first, or you can get on top to control how far and fast it goes in.

Answer 5

If you mean what I think you mean, I would recommend trying it at least once. If done right, it can be quite pleasurable. I would suggest an enema first, make sure you've had a BM first, and then just relax and take it slow. Trust me, it probable won't work out the first time, but if your patient, and willing to work with it, it might work out for you. I would suggest training with small objects first, like a thin dido, or something slim. Hey, you only live once!

Answer 6

I'm guessing its anal sex you want to try; anyway, you need to use lots LOTS of lubricant like K-Y or Astroglide or Eros or something like that and go really slow. Work up to penetration with his penis, have him try inserting first just one finger and letting your muscles adjust to the feel of having something pushing on them like that. Try to relax- there are two sphincter muscles that control entry to the rectum and you have to be relaxed both mentally and physically to get them to not contract and tighten and therefore cause difficulty when attempting penetration. The first few times will probably be uncomforable, but shouldn't be too bad, just kind of intense feelings. Good luck.

Answer 7

If your husband wants annual sex that means once a year!!
if he wants anal sex then ask him if he fancys men??

Answer 8

annual sex? I'm sure it would hurt to only have sex annually (once a year)

Answer 9

Is that like year long tantric sex or what? Anything to get my man off me for one night I would be all for!

Answer 10

My suggestion would be to tell him that u will let him do u as soon as u can stick a cucumber up his ***. That might make him thing twice.