i'm a fourth year college student. now, i always see this guy when im still on my 2nd year. he is handsome. i assume many college girls have a crush on him.
on my third year, i found out that we have the same college course and then circumstances in my school made him my classmate.
i said to myself, wow what a coincidence, now i have the opportunity to be his friend and somehow we will get to know each other. but nothing of tha happened. he is a shy guy and always sticks to his friends only. and im not the type who can put up a good conversation
from what i've heard, he still doesnt have a girlfriend, and that made me wonder. with his good looks, he can easily have one. if i can be in his position i will take advantage of my looks.
everytime a girl introduces herself to him, i always wish that he will not take her seriously i only want him for myself.
im not yet out, in my family or in school. im not even sure if im gay, because sometimes, im also attracted to women.
2006-08-14 19:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by harry 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd be VERY careful on this one. Just because he doesn't appear to you to be straight, because of his lack of interest in girls, doesn't mean he is gay or bi. It may mean that he has a girlfriend back home or that he wants to wait to get into a serious relationship after he has completed his education. You may have a sexual attraction to him (and to other men) but that does not mean he is the same way at all. And lastly, if he really does not pay much attention to you at all,and does not include you in his circle of friends, beware. You could be asking for trouble. I would say be satisfied with the casual friendship you seem to have with him as it now stands. Don't ruin it with assumptions that may not even be true.
2006-08-15 00:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here goes... First, be true to yourself... Only you know what you really are... I'm gay, but I'll admit to the beauty of women. But that doesn't mean I like them, I like men! Second, don't jump to any conclusions... Yeah, the guy might be cute, and yeah the guy might be gay... But there is no real way to find out... The way I see it, you could either A) say what's up and try to be friendly to the guy and see what happens (if he's shy, chances are that he will be friendly)! Or B) forget about it and move on...
Life is short, and as I like to say, there are plenty of fish in the sea... There's no real way to tell if someone is gay or not... Although in some people it's tottaly obvious, with others, you can never tell. So don't trip and take it easy...
2006-08-14 23:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Louie, On Stand-By! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not going to have a solid answer for yourself until you've gained some sexual experiences You need to find out what satisfies your sexual needs best, before you try and satisfy your emotional needs. Sure sounds like you have a crush on this guy. Make a bigger effort to make friends with him. Maybe, talk to him about something that's related to the class you share. Whether your staight, Bi or gay, you've got to be at least a little aggressive, to get to 1st base with anyone. Good luck. Be safe.
2006-08-14 23:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by originalcaptmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, its a difficult situation. Ask him out for dinner, and from there look what happens. He might turn the invite down on the grounds that he does not go out with guys. If he says yes, it does not necessarily mean he is gay. Take him somewhere 'SPECIAL' , treat him, and be open. See what happens.
If he is TOTALLY STRAIGHT, and homphobic, then he might tell all that you are GAY - even if you are not.
Best of luck.
2006-08-14 19:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Harry, go for it. If you don't, you will wonder what might have been for the rest of your life. The worst than can happen is that this guy who is not really in you life will not be in your life. Doesn't seem like a big down side.
2006-08-14 19:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously bisexual. stop trying to kid yourself. as for the guy.... he may not have a girlfriend yet because he doesnt want one. he is in collage.. knows he looks good and is playing the field. he also could be gay and in the closet as well.
2006-08-14 19:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're Bi, ask him out to coffee one saturday morning and see what happens.
2006-08-14 21:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~?~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dumbass(dumbass is my new favorite word think nothing of it.) anyways go for it im straight but you have to try or you'll never have a chance a at a date with him.
2006-08-14 19:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by sora,donald,and goofy. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your obviously gay. lol
2006-08-14 19:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by cheez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-14 19:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by HEY boo boo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋