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I want to tell my parents that i have had sex over the summer holidays im on...they are very proper people and will get upset over anything that hapens..they are very protective and will not hold anything back from wha they have to say..i am shy to talk to them about it and the only person i can count on is my 20 year old cousin..How do i tell my parents about this unfortunate news??

2006-08-14 19:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

5 answers

Really, it's none of their business, unless you enjoy torturing yourself. If you are experiencing that "I'm naughty and i have to come clean" type of thing, wait until you're 18, or if your older than that, wait until you're 21. They may be your parents, but your body belongs to you. Losing your virginity is only "unfortunate" if it's forced on you, you were impaired in your judgement at the time, or if you just didn't enjoy it.

FYI-- I lost my virginity at 19, and my parents are very proper, conservative people too. My mom asked if I was careful, and my dad later told her, and this is verbatim--
"It's about time, she's been really bitchy lately!"

2006-08-14 19:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0 0

Why do you feel you need to tell your parents? And why do you need to discuss this with your cousin? This is a personal matter and if you don't want anyone to think badly of you, keep it to yourself. How old are you? Is it your age that's making you think like this? I get the impression you're very young.

If you are very young, you shouldn't be sexually active. I really wish sex wasn't on everyone's minds as much as it is! Young people should be concentrating on taking care of their bodies and stop abusing them. We have too many young girls becoming pregnant at such early ages.

Our society is out of control! What's it going to take to put things back in control! I wish these were the 50's when Dad went to work and Mom stayed at home to take care of the children and make a nice, comfortable home for the family. I was born in 1949 and I remember being able to walk to and from school and never worrying about a car driving by and shooting at anyone or a car stopping to prey on children. The perverts were out there, but not in masses like nowadays.

2006-08-14 19:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0 0

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2016-10-02 02:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by aquino 4 · 0 0

I don't see why you should tell them unless there is a real reason to tell them. If you need to confide in someone, it should be someone who isn't going to be upset with you and will be helpful.

2006-08-14 19:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0 0

You're treating this like you spilled juice on the living room carpet.

Tell em or don't. Deal with it.

2006-08-14 19:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Isles1015 4 · 0 0

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