ok guyz here is your question i am 17 and have a 6 month old with my bf or 6 years and latley he doesnt want to have sex cuz he says he is always thinking about our son.so my question is why doesnt he want to he is always horny but never wants to have sex why ?? Please Help Me Guyz.
Okay gurlz here is your question since i am 17 is it illeagle that my bf is 16 and i am 17 and we have a 6 month old son ?? i know i sound really stupid but want to know.Please Help Me Gurlz
2006-08-14 19:01:13 · 31 answers · asked by Gerard Way Is HOT 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
even if it was illegal u all already had sex so whats the big deal
as far as legalities go the age of consent in most states is 14-16 where as in canada its 14 to eb charged with stat rape thers at least a 2 year differnce between the 2 ppl and with that the youngest has to be willing to testify . its not usually an issue in cases such as yours...... ur bf may not want to get u knocked up again hes 16 even if he is horny i woudlnt want 2 kids by the time i was 18 ,
good luck
2006-08-14 19:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not illegal, but don't you think it's a little to late to worry about that now? God girl wake up! Sex is not what you need to be worrying about right now. You are 16 years old and have a 6 month old, what you need to worry about is how your going to take care of your baby. Your boy doesn't want to have sex because he's scared your going to get pregnant again. Here's some advice, use a condom, birth control, anything to make sure it doesn't happen again. Where are your parents? Let me guess, other than having the responsibility of raising their child YOU, they now have the responsibility of raising their Grandchild, thanks to YOU, because your not old enough to do it your self. Sorry, I don't mean to be harsh, and I wish you the best of luck, I just hope you use better judgement in the future.
2006-08-20 19:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by DELLA R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit and talk to him about this, don't fight. This is not something you want to let swirl around in your mind because one day you will get mad and say things you don't mean. Don't talk about it when you are in bed. A couples bed is for intimacy and closeness, not deep conversations. I know it may be uncomfortable but the only one that can give you the true answer is him. If you have a good relationship, you guys will be able to work through this, my husband and I did. Remember no matter how hard it may be at times, communication is the key to a good relationship.
2006-08-21 12:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Shouldnt Have A Kid At 17 ... But Hes Probably Worried Somethings Could Happen Again.. No Its Not Illegal
2006-08-14 20:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥OnCloudNine9♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a child yourself, and you have a child. Maybe you should start thinking a little less about sex and more with being a better parent. Just because you are technically old enough to have sex, doesn't mean you are mentally ready to have sex. Also are you working and supporting this child???? I doubt it. Go back to school. Your life has barely begun and you are already heading downhill.
2006-08-21 13:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no it is not illegal...your both still under age, and they allow someone whos 18 to continue dating there boyfriend/girlfriend as long as they other person is 17 and turning 18 soon like a few years....so dont worry. and since you two have a kid together they cant say you cant see him even if your 18 and hes 17. =)
2006-08-21 03:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine how difficult for you to raise your baby in ur age. its not matter for u have a baby in ur age and for relationship it doesnt matter is someone is younger from you. But the question is 'are u ready to raise a baby? ..... in financial? ..... to be parent?.... have u thought about the future of your son? ... i think u have to marry why I say that coz ur son need a family name. U have to think about his future. And u have to communicate with your boyfriend to give a good future for your son. so it will not become illegal if u married and raise ur kid.
2006-08-22 15:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Happythrower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are, I mean if you are almost 18, the no probably not, but if you are only just 17, then yes it is illegal, because it means you obviously had sex before you were 16...
2006-08-22 04:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by urMERCYtaughtushow2dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i dont think its illegal that u guys have a baby with him a year younger than u if u were 18 n he was like 16 wen u had the baby then it would b illegal
2006-08-14 19:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, where the hell are your parents??? and why are you having a kid when you are still a kid yourself?? I dont think you should be worrying about him not wanting to have sex. I think you should be grateful he doesn't want sex because you don't need to have another kid.........and it seems that he is the smart one--even think that he is thinking about your son because he doesn't want another one any time soon????
2006-08-14 19:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by adlersgal 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋