are you in favor of premarital sex?if you are favor, why?why did you allow it?

Answer 1

yes,,, I think you should see how the sex life is going to be.

Answer 2

It's really not a matter of my being either for or against premarital sex that in question.
Pre marital sex meaning sex before marriage.
The last thing a marriage should be based on, is sex.There are lots of valid reasons to marry; sex shouldn't be one of them.
It's certainly not neccessary to be married to have sex and it shouldn't be.
Sex like hunger is a natural born instinct and should be treated like it is, not regulated by religious beliefs that niether God or Jesus dictatored. They're all add on's writen by men who thought the earth was flat.
The real question here is why are there rules governing consensual sex in the first place.
Why is it that everybody is so willing and so easily lead into what and how to think about our most basic instincts by simply saying," God said", or "Jesus said," or "they said," how or what you should think.
What the hell is wrong with all of us.And,..
in your question you ask, "why did you (I) allow it".
Who in the hell am I to be allowing or dis-allowing some one else's sexuality. I may be able to advise or possibly even help educate some, you know, about safe sex and all.
About the responsibilities that sex can and does bring.
All things that should be available to young people as soon as they start asking or showing interest.
If responsible people don't do it, someone else who may not know their anus from a hole in the ground certainly will. Someone who may very well have an agenda of their own.

Answer 3

Oh jeez. It should be a very personal decision. I would never say that I am "in favor" of it because I would never encourage someone else to do it if they weren't sure. But I would never condemn someone for doing it either. I chose not to wait and I don't regret it for a minute. That's not to say I don't regret ANYTHING (or more likely, anyONE) about my sexual history, but I am fine with how things have turned out. And I think when I meet the man I'm going to marry, the sex with him WILL be special, even if he isn't my first and I'm not his.

Answer 4

This is a very private question that each person has to answer for themselves. For me I think that pre-marital sex is okay if both parties are mature enough to handle the emotional baggage that comes with sex. It also depends on your age. Before the age of 21, I don't believe in it because you get all the wrong signals. After 21 and a few life experiences then you can better handle the emotional ups and downs.

Answer 5

I am not in favor or disfavor of it. It's a personal choice that only the individual could make. I did not have premarital sex,(By choice anyways, I was raped when I was a child) but however my husband left me, I am now living with my boyfriend. It happened between my boyfriend and I because we made a mutual decision to take it that far.

Answer 6

I do not favor pre-marital sex but that is my personal choice. In my opinion, pre-marital sex is ok as long as both are mature enough. I would say making love before marriage is better than having sex. But of course not making love with some one you “think” you love. You need to be very sure that he/she is the one for you so that you can add extra meaning to your relationship and not label it as a sexual act later in life and regret about it.

PS.> Never have regrets in life. Everyone makes mistakes and that is how we grow and learn.

Answer 7

yes...because if u did not have sex before marriage u might regret some things...like u find out that ur husband's dick is small or ur wife's impotent..these are just some of the factors that u need to discover before getting married...that's why im in favor of premarital sex

Answer 8

No I am not in favor and unfortunately, I did have it.

I allowed it because I did not care at that age. I didn't want to listen to anyone that told me that it was wrong.

Answer 9

I'm in favor of it. It's like buying a new car...you gotta test drive it first. I'm not going to stay with it if I don't like the way it performs. Would you?

Answer 10

Biblically I would prefer to find the perfect man prior to losing ones virginity......lol, that didn't happen. Though it is best to wait, once you've lost it I would not recommend waiting.

Here is the problem....... you spend all this time dating and falling in love........then after you are completely hooked on the guy you find your equipment doesn't match up......then what do you do?

Though its best to wait, I wasted enough time with someone whos equipment wasn't right for me........15 years I made excuses for that one! Now I gotta test the equipment, 'cause if isn't gonna work for me, I ain't wasting my time on it.

One has no control over their body parts.......size does matter, the right size for you!

Answer 11

I'm in favor of safe, consentual sex.

As far as I'm concerned, marriage and sex are two completely separate things; there's no real connection between them. Have sex before marriage, after marriage, whatever - it's irrelevent. What IS relevent is that you have sex safely and conscienciously.