what is wrong with me about 3 months ago i started fighting and yelling with my husband i thought i would get over it but i havnt i also keeping accusing him of stuff when i know he isint doing anything i also think he is hidding stuff from me but when i look through his phone there isint anything there im need help now b/4 its to late someone please help me i dont want to lose him
2006-08-14 18:14:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did the same thing with my husband, always accusing him of stuff. He wasn't doing anything either. Now we are no longer together and he is with a woman that doesn't accuse him of anything and he is very happy with her.
2006-08-14 18:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by susan_112147 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's called nagging... taken to extremes it can take your man to cheat on you for real or to leave you! neither are good!
find some other hobby other than tormenting your poor husband, try to rid of extra agressive energies by taking some martial arts class, yoga, meditation, extreme sports, swimming, or anything constructive that helps you take the burden off him.
if you can, talk to a marriage counselor you can trust.
ADDED: also what SweetT said can be true, check for some chemical inbalances mental diseases that can be responsible for excessive paranoia and aggressivity.
2006-08-14 18:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant? If not then your intuition is probably telling you something. Many women know internally when a man is cheating even if they have the best cover up. If it doesn't stop, you need to take a vacation and see if the love comes back.
2006-08-14 18:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzybinature 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gosh thats strange, take a chill pill, if he isnt doing anything wrong, the stop being that way to him before he leaves you.
2006-08-14 18:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, chill out. I have the answer for you. Light up a J and toke on it for awhile. You'll surely drive him away if your accusations are wrong.
2006-08-14 19:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by hotwife022 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's because you are unhappy with yourself. Or maybe you don't really love him and feel guilty about it and you're trying to force him into leaving you. Think about it.
2006-08-14 18:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are bipolar, go see a doctor........... seriously, you may have a chemical imbalance of some kind. It could ruin your life. Do you have children, you could be stressing them out too.......
2006-08-14 18:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by SweetT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE DEEP DOWN IN SIDE YOU DONT REALLY WANT TO BE THERE,BUT IF I AM WRONG GO SEEK OUT A COUNCELLER AND GET HELP.
2006-08-15 00:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking instead of shouting...it makes a huge difference
2006-08-14 18:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by shutup111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS?
2006-08-14 18:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋