i've recently given up the battle of trying to sort out my relationship with my boyfriend after a long time of misery and upset. i knew this would be the last opportunity we'd have to make things work and just when they could have he's decided to mess about. its making me miserable being without him as we used to spend so much time together and i was wondering if anyone has any advice of what i can do to cheer myself up
2006-08-14 18:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by lickdatramp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you were not happy in your relationship, there's no reason why you should stay in it. The reason of being with someone because that person is making you happy. But if the case went the other way around, then let it go. The reason why you are feeling miserable right now because the set up of being by your own becomes new to you. But eventually you will feel more free and confident being on your own. In that way, you will be able to assess what you really want in a relationship and what you really are looking for in a guy. CHEER UP GIRL!!
2006-08-14 18:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting some of your girlfriends together, and hanging out. That always helps, or just find something you love to do, and just sticking with it for awhile, but remember what don't kill you will only make you stronger, and time heals all wounds.
2006-08-14 18:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Events like these build character.
If he hasnt respected you till now, he is not going to suddenly respect you now.
Get over it.
Yes, I know its easy to say, but hard to do.
What choice do you have.
Learn the lesson and move on.
You have endless options.
Find someone who loves you as much in return
2006-08-14 18:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Six B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to be honest it is going to hurt for a while even though u dont want it 2 its natural. when it stops hurtin and just wen ur not lookin for someone else that special one will come and knock u off ur feet and all that pain u felt before wouldnt matter anymore.
2006-08-14 18:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's messing about, then you're better off without him. I know, easier said than done. If you find out how to handle the grief, let me know.
2006-08-14 18:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sitting around the house moping. have a really good afternoon of crying get it out your system and then go have some fun. its over , your not dead, quit acting like it
2006-08-14 18:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by angelnmuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be difficult for you for a while but once you will get away from it comepletely, you would be able to enjoy your life again....break-ups are really painful sometime.
2006-08-14 23:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make frds,be in frds company so u dnt stay alone n get thkg about him,u ll soon get a replacement beta than him
2006-08-14 21:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by ebonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a nice long trip by yourself somewhere. it is amazing what being by yourself to think and ratioanlize eveything can do for a soul.
2006-08-14 18:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cookies and cream icecream....and a night out with the girls...
perhaps a day at the spa?
2006-08-14 18:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋