i would like to know how to properly finger a girl...maybe a diagram w/a link and stuff would help...i'm 16 so i'm not exactly an expert on this...so i would like to know where everything is and what to do exactly...so for ppl who say...omg ur 16 oh well we're avoiding sex until were 18 so yeah be happy about that
2006-08-14 18:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you insert a finger (or two if she lets you), turn your palm upwards and curl your fingers in a "come hither" motion. This should stimulate her G-spot.
Some women prefer G-spot stimulation, some prefer clitoral. Ask her what she likes. Experiment. Keep communication open.
2006-08-14 18:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly just focus on the clit. Fingering isnt the greatest thing ever. But if you do, make sure your nails are short and have no sharp edges. If you decide to though, be gentle. Pumping your fingers in and out isnt the key. Once your finger is in there wiggle it around alot and that should give her the best feeling. And I must say that I respect the fact that you are waiting till you are older to have intercourse and I think that you have made a wise choice.
2006-08-14 18:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by ms mystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she's new to this sex stuff too so just be honest with her, ask her how it feels, if it hurts, etc. Learn from experience and explore together. Tip: Keep your fingernails neat and trim before fingering her. Have fun!
2006-08-14 18:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sparkling up a pair issues... First, there is 0 danger of you getting pregnant once you've your era! You get your era because the egg that grow to be launched out of your ovary did not get fertilized and for this reason the upward push on your uterine lining isn't needed and it truly is discarded. (no longer saying you do not opt to apply threat-free practices for different causes like STDs, you'll get them even as you've your era.) 2d, I agree that hormones are a large reason for arousal for the time of era time. yet i imagine it is more effective than that. i imagine the more effective blood impacts nerve endings besides. i imagine age has something to do with it too. because now--in my 30's it truly is nowhere close to as eye-catching as even as i grow to be in my late youthful human beings and 20's.
2016-11-25 01:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are open enough to discuss waiting for sex but fingering, be honest and tell her you don't know what to do. try it out, do some different stuff and ask her what feels best.
2006-08-14 18:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by all the same eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slim,
Omg. That's not nasty. It's good what you are doing. Although, I'm not the one to answer this question.
2006-08-14 18:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by l3p3rkonz_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is ask the girl what she likes. If she's new to this too, then you can learn from each other...
2006-08-14 18:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has nothing to do with your ? but can you give me the like the you did yesterday
2006-08-14 18:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tyler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.....just go for it and be gentle. She will let you know if you are doing it right. LOL....relax bro
2006-08-14 18:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by *ICE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋