I did not mention that we do have kids together. My daughter is not actually his but he has been there for her since she was one. My 5 year old son is his. And the last week or two we were split up, not leagly but he was not staying here. We would still call each other and talk but not actually see each other. He has already said he is not leaving here. This house is in my name.
2006-08-14 18:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by prettywomen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick him to the curb if he refuses then when he is gone get different locks put on the door. Make sure that you kids are gone the time this is happening. Throw his clothes out the door and leave them there. If he throws a fit call the cops and tell them what is going on. He is being unfaithful and disrespecting you and you want him out of your life. Your worth so much more then a lying two timing no good for nothing man.
2006-08-14 18:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First visit a shrink and get emotional support, then visit a divorce lawyer.
You say in your other question that he has stayed out consistently in all the time you have been married, among other things. How is this marriage going to be put back together?
And, NO, marriage is NOT forever. Good marriage, yes. But a bad marriage, with emotional destruction, insincerity, suspicion and children caught up in it is hell and should be dissolved as rapidly and amicably (if that can be) as possible.
2006-08-15 01:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he had an affair? what does the kids have to do with it? dont stay for that reason...if you plan on taking him back, go have your own affair you will feel better and get over him doing it easier, dont tell him though. if you dont want him back go file a harrassment order at the court house, it will keep him away until the divorce and you will end up with the house since its in your name.
2006-08-15 01:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by sexy momma 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your Question ? what do you wanna know ?
do you want to know if he is having an affair or not ?
i don't think that will matter with you, you both look to be fine with breaking up.
if you love him and want him back, just stay loving him, don't ever lose that or let it go, make him feel that you are there for him all the time and you care for him, if he still loves you he will return to you even if he was having an affaire.
i hope i've helped
2006-08-15 01:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sherif G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is staying out all night he has already left there. I changed my locks after he kept staying out. My mother in law kept telling me only you know when you are tired, so I'm telling you the same thing. But kids adjust. As long as they know that their dad and their mom both loves them, they are fine. I let mine see daddy whenever he wants. But I moved out of state. But they talk every other day if he calls. But they adjust. Just keep them happy and that's all that matters. He won't try to fight for them, trust, it doesn't fit his lifestyle. When you are out whoring, who is gonna babysit???
2006-08-15 01:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by SweetT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i read your previous post too. seems u can't do anything anymore. so stop whining, put yourself together and try to look good to and find someone else. why do u need a man who doesn't need u? and children have nothing to do with it. i have 3 kids from the same man it didn't stop me from getting divorsed. we live only once, why waste it on being sad?occupy your mind by children. best of luck
2006-08-15 01:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but, you just said he is not staying here, so which is it?
2006-08-15 01:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be hard to get hem too go!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 01:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋