Dreamt that I had a child with him and that all of us were happy as a family. We broke up about 10 years ago. Am not sure what all this means.
2006-08-14 17:50:49 · 23 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, I am married and I have a kid. So, I am not sure why I have had this dream of this ex, who went out with me so long ago. I think though that I had the most exciting relationship with him in the sense, that I had the option of moving overseas with him as he was a foreigner.
2006-08-14 18:01:13 · update #1
Well, I dumped him.....And got married to the man that I dumped him for. I saw no future in the relationship as he was way older than I was...It wld have never worked
2006-08-14 18:07:32 · update #2
Sigh...man that I married is very nice. Responsible. Loving. But I am bored of him.
2006-08-14 18:37:49 · update #3
I have read some of the responses that excitement is missing in the relationship. That is for sure. I just dont think that anything I do will add to it as my husband is just the stable, responsible , workaholic type. HELP! There is so much that I want to do. Live in Europe etc, but I cant cos I have a kid.
2006-08-14 19:14:56 · update #4
Recurring dream of ex relationship could mean a few things
1. Replacement relationship - You may not be satisfied with your current relationship. Yes, this is coming out from your subconscious mind. You probably went back to the old relationship to search for happy moment with your ex. Perhaps lately, a slight argument or slight discontent will triggered that dream
2. Still miss that ex of yours - Highly unlikely. However, there is possibilities that you saw something that triggered that dream. You could still have a feeling about him.
3. Some guilty feelings - could not be from him, but you regret something and picked him as a regret incident. And you dreamed about it.
Whatever it is, it is a dream coming out from your head. You probably know the answer to it.
2006-08-15 00:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back your ex is https://tr.im/JzqIQ
Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-20 04:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a few regrets. Time to work it out in your dreams and appreciate what you have here. You are blessed to have a child and family here. Tomorrow night you may dream that he left you and took that child with him. Be grateful for where you are and Bloom where you are. There are no accidents and you ended up right where you need to be. Dreams are the very best avenue of working out any past regrets or guilt. It is much better to dream of it than to have him come back in real life and cheat on the good thing you have now.
2006-08-14 18:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Ex Boyfriend
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship."
There are lots of dream interpreting websites if you really believe there are meanings behind dreams... Just search "dream meanings" in the Yahoo! Search engine...
2006-08-14 18:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a layman's response: We often use dreams to work out problems that we avoid or ignore in our waking life. Also, dreams can often be symbolic or representational. Perhaps dreaming of your old boyfriend represents something you are yearning for in your present life. Spend some time thinking about what is causing you anxiety in your life right now and you might find what this dream is all about.
2006-08-14 18:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by tetu22001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spent lots time with him and now which you at the instant are not you pass over him and are dreaming of him. it relatively is no longer a foul subject. possibly you will desire to fill that void with a e book or maybe somebody else. it must be a chum or consistent with probability a kin member. stable determination on no longer speaking to him. That became right into a wholesome circulate for you and him. while you at the instant are not jointly then there's a reason and no reason to stay in touch with one yet another.
2016-10-02 02:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-21 23:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's a bad dream then YES put a dagger through that cheating scumbags heart NOW!
If it's a good dream then tell him he can come around this weekend, but only with big bunch of flowers
2006-08-14 20:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just the brain sorting out and reprocessing old memories - a bit like tidying out the attic, looking through old photographs and so on. Don't read any significance into it.
2006-08-14 18:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that you never had closure to your relationship, or that he is your soul mate, and the two of you are destined to be together, or he might be thinking of you and may want to see you, either way look the brother up.
2006-08-14 18:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by divastylelft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋