im 15 and love this girl to death ...i dont wanna lose her..what should i do??
so confused....please help..i really wanna be with her so bad..please help?
this girl i like is 13..im 15..she used to be all over me...i asked her out and she said idk maybe......it has been about a month now...and she has backd off big time....she told her friends she mite like me..now she's telling them she had no feelings for me at all....and its like she duznt really pay that much attention to me anymore..but ..me...and other people have noticed..she';; sneak glances at me all the time..and wehn i talk about other girls shell notice more..but her and her mom are really close and shes telling her she likes me..and.shes just scared cuz she duznt wanna ruin the friendship if we ever break up...but that she aslo cant make her mind up between me and this other guy...but her and my youth group recently went on a mission trip to costa rica..and when i talked to other people..they said she was really flirting with this other guy in my youth...... they got back last nite. and she aint emailed me or talkd 2 me yet..duz she like me.. or what ...what should i do??
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34 minutes ago
i mean she knows i like her....so why did she back off??
32 minutes ago
so if she likes me and this other guy..why is she all over him now....like she used to be with me?? why did she just drop me??
2006-08-14 17:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you waited too long......she just got fed up and figured you didn't like her
2006-08-14 17:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude...she's 13, and even though she seems like a good christian, she'll change her mind as often as she changes her underware. AS will you. Sure it might hurt, by not going out anymore but if you be the better man you can still save a friendship outta this.
When I was your age I dated chiocks that I broke up with or got dumpped by and purposly tried to remain frineds. If you dont get the fact that both of you are young and still learning what you are after, you may lose something in the future. Especially if you attend the same youth group and church. Don't ruin either of your thoughts on attending just cause you liked or still like eachother.
You're only 15 and the second you stop looking for a chick is when God will bring one into your life. He's good like that. TRUST ME!!!! ;)
2006-08-15 00:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by DREAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really both too young to get so upset over this. Why don't you try to stay friends with this girl and if there's really a connection,give it some time and it will develop. You have years ahead of you to form relationships.
2006-08-15 00:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you really like her, show her some respect and give her some room to choose, and time to as well. also, you're only fifteen. i'm sure you've heard other people say that there's plenty of other girls out there, well, it's true. you're gonna meet tons of babes along the way, especially in college. make room for possibilities!
2006-08-15 00:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Scubby_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id have to say shes either been advised to stay away by her parents..or it was just the thrill of the catch and now that she knows you like her, she doesnt like you that way anymore..girls are weird believe me, i am one. Just leave her be, and go study or something
2006-08-15 00:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soulds like she likes you but maybe she felt that she had to back off because her parents might not like the idea of her dating an older boy.
2006-08-15 01:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find someone other then this girl.....If you are having trouble in a relationship at this age so soon into the relationship move on...
2006-08-15 00:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2006-08-15 00:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋