What's the possibility of someone else being the father of this baby?

Question

While my ex and I were broken up last year, I drunkinly made a mistake and had unprotected sex with one of my co-workers, on October 14th...and so my ex and I got back together and we decided to have a child...I decided not to start new pills, and so mine ran out October 31st...I made sure I had taken one every single day like I was supposed to at the same time everyday.
And 2 days after we had sex, I got my period...
Well 2 weeks later, I took a pregnancy test, and one at Planned Parenthood, and both came out negative...meanwhile my ex and I had been having so much unprotected sex...and continued to do so, and my last period was November 17th, and the 1st or 2nd week into December, I bought a home prgnancy test and it came out positive.

Is there any chance at all that this could be my co-workers child?
I don't want that, I want this to be my ex's baby, and I don't think it's this other guys at all, but to be sure, I want your opinions...'cause s*** happens...

Well he's my ex now, and already knew what had happened to begin with, and when we got back together we had decided to take our relationship to the next level, but I guess it sould have been marriage, and we did get engaged earlier this year but he decided to break up with me in June so we could work on ourselves and be friends again, get along, a break...and it hurts like crazy because I love him and he has told me we will talk about us after the child is born, but I don't know, he told me recently he's still in love with me, but he's also hitting on so many girls, and giving them his number...so I don't know...

I was asking because it was a constant wonder in my mind because my ex put it into my mind...he asked me once if there was a chance it could be the co-workers and I started to think about it and said no because of this and that, so I thought I'd ask everyone here...

I think I'll know!
The coworker was black, and he was dark, and my ex is white/native american, and I'm mexican and were both about the same light skinned...so I think I'd know...if it was the co-workers once I see the baby...

I am 38 Weeks and 4 days now...

Answer 1

Nope. With all the tests you took, and the fact that you were on the pill and did indeed have your period at the end of October, your next ovulation would have been in mid-November which would make this child your ex's baby, not the coworker's.

Answer 2

If I understand properly that: a million) you've been taking birth control pills on a daily basis once you had sex with the co-worker and were doing so for it sluggish, 2) you had 2 sessions when you had sex such as your co-worker 3) Your first being pregnant try happened more effective than 2 weeks when you had sex with the co-worker and it grow to be adverse, then there is somewhat a lot no probability that the newborn is the co-human beings. If all this isn't adequate info, the well being care provider might want to be able to allow you to recognize the way some distance alongside you're, which will placed the in all probability date of theory when you had sex with the different guy.

Answer 3

Okay, I used the pregnancy date calculator based off the date of the last period (November 17th). This means your date of conception was on or around December 1st (could be a couple days of week). Late in the second week of December, if you ran a pregnancy test, it would come out positive based on the day of conception being late November/early December.

To answer your question, your ex is the biological father of your child, not your co-worker.

Hope that helps and good luck!

Answer 4

Sweety if you had your period after your coworker there is no way this is his baby. Sperm do not have that kind of shelf life. Once you get a period you are not pregnant and since you had a period after you had sex with the co worker you are ok. It is your boyfriends baby and it is probably not the best idea in the world to tell him you thought this is the first place

Answer 5

ok i was kinda in the same situation, all u can do is find out how many weeks pregnant u are. u remember the dates when u had sex with ur co worker and ur when u and ur ex got back together so u can do that or just get a paternity test. i know how confused u feel but im getting a test done bc my babys dad wants one. me and him are not together though bc he ran when i got pregnant and then told me to abort the baby so i hope it all works out for you

Answer 6

I would say no. You had your period after unprotected sex with the co-worker, so it seems to me that there is zip chance of your co-worker being the father of this baby. However, you may want to get a paternity test, just to be sure.

Answer 7

You got your period after the incident with your co-worker, plus you were still on the pill. Don't worry, it is youe ex's (well, he's not your ex now) baby. Good luck!

Answer 8

I didn't read anything about you getting married to the father of your child. How about getting a DNA test to prove positively who the father is so your kid will at least know who the biological father is when he starts asking you about his father. Don't lie to you kid either.
Lady, you are going down the wrong selfish path. Your boyfriends don't give a damn about you or your bastard kid, so make sure you KNOW who the real father is before you commit to marriage or your kid will never forgive either of you. EVER!

Answer 9

if you got pregnant that long after, chances are your ex is the father but i would still get a paternity test done to be sure....you can even get the test done without your ex knowing if you don't want him to....

Answer 10

there is no possibilty if the last time you slept with the coworker was on oct.14 then there is no chance you get pregnant two weeks after your period