how do u cure a jealous boyfriend?

Answer 1

EASY! Date ME!

Answer 2

Hey, hey now. I'm a young hottie, my boyfriend's head over heels in love with me, makes the best love to me in the world, treats me like a queen and I'M still a mildly jealous person. If you CARE about him, don't just dump him. Do exactly what someone said above, ask him to identify why he's jealous, so you can reassure him in whatever way possible to a point that you're comfortable with. Counseling is a GREAT idea. Jealousy is a hard thing to shake. I'm not 100% on why I would even BE jealous of other women, but occasionally I am. I think jealousy is a cry for assurance. Maybe you are not assuring him to his needs & if you feel that you are, and his requests are ridiculous ... then maybe he does need help. (The kinky sex, all for him, is a GREAT idea, too.) Good luck.

Answer 3

Get a new boyfriend who trusts you :)

Seriously, sit down and talk with him if it becomes a problem. All men and women are naturally jealous on one level or another, but some go to extremes. Tell him that you won't hold anything against him, and that he can be straight-up honest with you. Ask him what you're doing which is making him jealous. Show him that you're concerned and that you want to understand why he's insecure. Then decide if you can live with adjusting your behavior, unless his jealousy is just plain unreasonable, such as "You smiled at the waiter." If he's just unreasonable, leave him. Like others said, things might get dangerous.

If sitting down and talking doesn't work: If you guys are really serious, propose relationship counseling. You can find a counselor in the phonebook.

Answer 4

By cutting off the relationship and finding someone else.

Jealousy poisons intimacy and can lead to violence. Jealousy is not something that you can cure - it's the boyfriend who has to do that. And there is no point in being together during the 'cure' because that's self-defeating.

Answer 5

the "cure" is TRUST, you both need to find out why he is jealous and he needs to work within himself to overcome that. And if he is not abusive, angry, or disrespectful in how he expresses his feelings, then keep reassuring him and make sure you are not acting out in ways that are misunderstood (like flirting). If you have not done this to begin with, and he is just insecure based on his own mental perception. There is not a sure cure, short of him changing himself. And you need to remember that you deserve better than someone who cannot trust you, if you know are worthy of their complete trust.

Answer 6

There is no overnight cure if that is what your looking for. It will take lots and lots of time and lots and lots of patience and lots and lots of work. If you love him enough to work for his trust your relationship just might work. In the beggining my boyfriend did not trust me AT ALL, period. It took alot of time for him to finally realize that I was not gonna do anything to hurt him. We would fight all the time because if I didn't answer my phone his assumption was that I was with another guy, if I happened to glance over at another male I was checking him out or if I asked a guy a question like in a store or resturaunt or something, I was flirting. Oh boy was I getting frustrated and there were many times that I just wanted to give up and end it because it was alot to deal with...it was exhausting literally. But something told me to stick with it, my heart was in this relationship 100% and I would be broken-hearted without him so I stuck with it and I constantly assured him that he was my one and only and I would never hurt him. Well, one day I just happened to realize that I was relaxed and I could ask guys questions or glance at them and it was ok...I don't know when, where, why or how it changed but it did. It was the greatest feeling when I realized that my hard work and constant fighting paid off and it was over with. In my case it was worth it because now I have the most wonderful relationship and we are happy as hell, I would not trade him for the world. YOU have to really think about this and ask yourself, is he really worth all the bullsh*t Im gonna go through? If you think he is, then get ready for a rocky path and hope that you have a happy ending like mine but if you have doubts and you really don't think he is worth it I suggest you get out now. Good Luck with whatever you do.

Answer 7

There is no cure, seriously! He is jealous because he feels guilty for doing exactly what he accuses you of doing. The only thing you can do is find a better guy.

Answer 8

HEY I HAVE ONE OF THOSE! Look...you can't cure it. What you can do is go ahead with your other friends. There's no way that your's is worse than mine! All I do is I tell him straight up that I won't have a jealous boyfriend. I can't stand someone possessive! He understood because he loves me...if your boyfriend doesn't understand...can you say "Later"?

Answer 9

Jealousy usually stems from insecurity. You need to make him more secure about your relationship. Show him that you really love him and that your flirting with his friends is just a way of making you feel good about yourself.
Seriously, you first have to know the cause before you get to know the cure.

Answer 10

If he's jealous of someone then he probably doesn't trust you. Usually by not trusting you it means that he himself is looking at other girls. I'm not saying that's the case for you, but normally that's what goes on. Try talking to him about it. If that doesn't work, then tell him it's making you unhappy and if he loves you, he will do his best to put his trust back into you. =) Good luck!

Answer 11

I'm not really sure if you can. Reassurance might help him, let him know that you love being with him and all that. If he's concerned about other people, invite him along so he can get to know those people better and feel better about you being around them. Honestly, if this doesn't help, he'll always be like that and it'll eventually ruin the relationship.