2006-08-14 16:54:45 · 28 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be happy for your friend! that is if you're really her friend...dont make her as your measuring stick but focus on yourself..she's her, and you're you...make the best of what you ahve and be happy with it! dont poison your mind with jealousy over your friend's..get over it! dont make comparisons becuase there's no way that u can be like her..we're all unique individual..some have more than we have but that doesnt make us less than the others :) we're all equal in the eyes of God :)
2006-08-14 17:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous. In 10 to 20 years your friend won't be able to make it on her own, her daddy will be tired of supporting her and she will be out on the streets. She won't be able to hold down a successful job or marriage because she will be too spoiled and selfish that she won't be able to handle the real world. While you will have to wait or work for everything you want you will appreciate it more when you get it. You will know the responsibility and value of money where she will constantly blow hers and won't be able to pay her bills, rent, buy groceries, etc. Oh and btw, that new Mustang daddy buys her will be wrecked within 6 months of her getting it. Don't ride with her and don't be jealous. You sound like you already have a successful life ahead of you by doing your own hard work, while she will have a hard life. She will also start mooching off of you and everyone else when daddy cuts her off.
2016-03-27 02:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does she have? Does she have Herpes? Being jealous of your friend is a waste of energy. It's like either she is your friend or she is just a girl that you know kind of. Does she know that you think that she has everything. What you should do is talk to her let her know how you feel ask her to help you to be more like her or a better you. If you two are friends it will be a great bonding experience. There is nothing wrong with thinking that someone is better off then you, the harm comes when you start to believe that you are LESS.
2006-08-14 17:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ms New Booty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to have a friend that has everything. But you do need to remember that not everyone is perfect, there are probably some aspects in your friends life that are not so great. Next you need to look at your life and see that it is not that bad, you should be happy for your friend and stop being jealous because there is nothing you can do about it.
2006-08-14 17:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most successful people have common traits. So, try & find out how she is accomplishing her success? Does she study hard & gain intelligence, work out & gain fitness, pray & gain spiritual guidance? all of the above? Perhaps even sharing a bit about your jealousy might help to kill it. If she is a good friend she will understand & maybe help you see all the great things that you have that she may be jealous of!
2006-08-14 17:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by cavers1616 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are her really good friend? The grass always looks greener on the other side, but it still has to be mowed. You have no idea what price your friend pays for "everything." When it is your time, and if you strive for it, good things will come into your life. Be happy for your friend. That's what friends do. Envy will be the death of your friendship if you let it.
2006-08-14 17:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be jealous of a good friend. I'm jealous of my friends too. You dont have to feel bad, its only human to covet and feel jealous. The important thing is to keep it in check and not let it get in the way of your friendship.
2006-08-14 16:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in your position myself. It's easy to be jealous of someome you're close to, because you see so many of the good things in her life. But think about the bad things she has to deal with, and remind yourself about what you have the she doesn't. Just don't tell your friend; then she'll feel bad.
2006-08-14 17:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by dalgirl990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember u have it too only when u realize it. It's up to u to find ur own diamonds that u have, mean the treasures that u have maybe u mis-use it or u can't remember u have it. Just go and find them u will love it and not be jeslous of others.
2006-08-14 16:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be jealous of her.appreciate what you have and appreciate her and her personality and not what she has.
jealousy is kind of natural but we can try to control it.i think thats exactly what you need to do.nobody has everything anyway.
but always bear it in mind that u have whatever she has,its called faith.u may not see those things now .
2006-08-14 17:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋