so confused....please help..i really wanna be with her so bad..please help?
this girl i like is 13..im 15..she used to be all over me...i asked her out and she said idk maybe......it has been about a month now...and she has backd off big time....she told her friends she mite like me..now she's telling them she had no feelings for me at all....and its like she duznt really pay that much attention to me anymore..but ..me...and other people have noticed..she';; sneak glances at me all the time..and wehn i talk about other girls shell notice more..but her and her mom are really close and shes telling her she likes me..and.shes just scared cuz she duznt wanna ruin the friendship if we ever break up...but that she aslo cant make her mind up between me and this other guy...but her and my youth group recently went on a mission trip to costa rica..and when i talked to other people..they said she was really flirting with this other guy in my youth...... they got back last nite. and she aint emailed me or talkd 2 me yet..duz she like me.. or what ...what should i do??
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34 minutes ago
i mean she knows i like her....so why did she back off??
32 minutes ago
so if she likes me and this other guy..why is she all over him now....like she used to be with me?? why did she just drop me??
2006-08-14 16:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are 15 and she is 13, you are both too young for love. It isn't love, it is just lust. I'd stop worrying about it or else you'll worry yourself sick.
2006-08-14 16:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young for love. If she wanted to be with you, she would be. At 13 and 15 you are both going to like and dislike dozens of other people. Please do not get yourself all worked up over this, it will change. You need to be concentrating on your schoolwork and sports and your friends right now and not be obsessing over a 13 year old girl. She is a child, and you are not adult enough to be in a relationship either. I do not mean to be blunt, but you have a lot of growing up to do before either of you worry about a relationship. Have a good night.
2006-08-14 16:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up a reeeaaaalllllly strong friendship, and by the time you've finshed with that, ask her out if you still have feelings for her. That way, if you break up, you can still remain friends because your friendship was so large a part of your relationship.
2006-08-14 16:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by dalgirl990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok dont pay too much attention to her, shes craving attention. second, if she doesn't want to lose the friendship, that might mean she considers you a friend (which is bad). third, your 15 bro, dont consider being in a relationship now if i were you, wait till your around 19ish. for now just flrt with girls and have friends with benefits. enjoy life at the fullest at your age, trust me, you dont want to get stuck in a relation ship when your supposed to experiment with other girls.
2006-08-14 16:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by grimreaper00i 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This kinda sounds like me and Tyler's situation but maybe he came along and she just likes him better but she still kinda likes u at the same time.
2006-08-14 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by citygurl3592 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thirteen is a crazy age. I hope they didnt do anything on a mission trip. that's wrong lol.
2006-08-14 16:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ur just kids, live ur young lives as much as you can, soon you will be grown up and that's when you can worry about that stuff!!!
2006-08-14 16:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
post this in the dating category
2006-08-14 16:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but just accept it like a man & find someone else to like or else she will think you are a stalker
((((HUGS TO YOU))))
2006-08-14 16:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just having a puppy-love-sick..
2006-08-14 16:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cool Z 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋