A question about Latinos?

Question

Okay, me and my friend(we're friends with benefits) where out and he started to talk about some of his exs. And he was kinda gloatin gabout al the Latinas he's been with and he was saying some very slick $hit about how latinas are the best looking women and most other girls can't compare. And he was saying that we can't get serious because he really wants to marry a latina instead of a Black woman.I got really mad at that. Why do Latinos seem to gloat about how they are the best race?

I've seen a lot of ugly Latinas running around DC. So they aren't the most attracive race.

Answer 1

Check out these quotes I've actually heard:

"once you go black, you don't go back"

"I'm seeking a Jewish husband"

"I'm only interested in marrying Greek"

Also:

if you take a look at personal ads, there's an overwhelmingly large amount of white people only interested in white partners

growing up in a mostly black neighborhood, I can tell you that black people love to ridicule people from other cultures, more so than white people

My point with those examples: each race thinks they're the best, but I have to tell you, that Latinos are probably the least pickiest with regards to dating people from outside of their culture.

My best explanation, from a Latino, is that that guy you were talking to was probably rejected by girls of other races, and as a result is now only interested in Latinas.

Answer 2

Is your friend Latino? Assuming he is, then he's the only one gloating that you know about (or at least that you've indicated). Please don't generalize. It gets us all into gross misunderstandings.

There seem to be a few things going on here, one being your friend's gloating; another may be that you're developing feelings that go beyond the "friends with benefits" boundaries; the third, sadly, is his disrespecting you by talking about his ex's.

However, there could be two reasons for that: 1) he's comfortable enough with the "friends with benefits" situation to say what's on his mind; 2) he could be letting you know that he senses you have feelings for him and so by saying he wants to marry a Latina he's telling you you're not wife material for him.

It would seem you have a choice to make.

Answer 3

Not all Latins are like that.And i can make the same generalization that you made about how Latins try to gloat about how good they look and say that blacks do the same.Because trust me i sure in hell have heard LOTS of black women say that they look better then any other type of women out there.And with any ethnicity there is going to be unattractive or ugly people.I've seen a lot of downright ugly black women too.So quit being mad at your friend for liking Latins better,it's just his personal taste.Go find yourself a man that can appreciate you Latina or not.

Answer 4

Send to the hell to your friend and a latina is telling you that.
He is a person with prejudices. He can find a good woman in a black girl, latina, asian, white...the thing which matters is the inside. And I don't think my race is the best, it is just the race, the outside package

Answer 5

Latinos dont consider themselves the best race. Latinas are just more sexually appealing to Americans.

Answer 6

I agree w/what cboni2000 said.

Speaking from a female standpoint, you seem to be "ok" with the freinds-with-benefits situation, but NOT ok with it, if that makes sense.

He's basically being honest with you(which you can't blame him for), about what he wants as far as marriage material and since you don't fit the description of what he wants, why continue to put yourself in a position to be "used just for sex"?

You'd be better off finding someone who wants you as a friend AND more instead of sitting there listening to his demeaning opinions of what he wants in a woman.

Speaking from personal experience, sometimes you have to put your foot down and demand the respect you deserve.

Answer 7

Doesn't EVERY race brag that it is the BEST race????

The problem in this situation lies with your "friend" who would pick a wife based on her ethnic background rather than on mutual attraction, shared values, and LOVE!!!!!

Answer 8

ITS CALLED RACISM , AND IF LA RASA IS SO GREAT WHY ARE THEY LEAVING COUNTRYS THAT ARE HISPANIC ie , MEXICO , SOUTH AMERICA ETC.... A LOT OF THEM ARE THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES OR ON THE BRINK OF IT , WHAT GREAT INVENTORS CAN YOU THINK OF OFF THE TOP OF YOUR HEAD THAT ARE THE SO CALLED " BEST RACE" , , HOW MANY PEOLE ARE DESPERATE TO GO SOUTH , HEHEH, FUNNY HUH, THINK ABOUT IT , WHEN HISPANICS THINK THEY ARE A BETTER RACE THEY ARE ON THE SAME PAGE AS HITLER , OUCH , AT LEAST THE GERMANS DEVELOPED SOME SOPHISTICATED WEAPONS .
NOT THAT IAM DEFENDING HITLERS GERMANY , IAM JUST SAYING ARROGANCE IS WHAT BROUGHT THEM DOWN , AS WILL IT BRING ANY PEOPLE DOWN TO A NEW LOW . WE ALL BLEED RED

Answer 9

he is a racist pig that is what. sound familiar? black power, white power, taco power. you should cut off the benefits right now and see how long he stays around to call you friend. I bet not as long as it took me to write this reply.

Answer 10

i dont think its latinos its all race that do that..all races tend to gloat..race..religion..color..whatever it maybe..i dunno why tho..there is no point..were all the same..latinas arent the best lookin..i luv black..asians..exotic..white..it dont matta..black girls got booty..asians got eyes..etc...not all latinas are sexxi..it just depends on who we talkin about..he being ignorant tho if he saying that..i never dated a black lady..so i wouldnt know how black women are..lol..well holla..