Im a cheerleader, last year coach put me as a flyer, some girls on the team didnt like me and wanted their friend to fly and so they told me that they were replacing me, im shy and have a hard time sticking up for myself, so i went to coach and told her what was going on and all she did was tell the squad that she was in charge, not them. DIDNT HELP! That was my frosh year and now im in10th and coach put me as a front spot, because i didn't make comp team, i made JV, so thats fine , whatever. im so sick of fighting with these girls so i was just going to be nice, but they can't possibly get through summer practice without a fight. on JV we had 9 girls, stunt group of 5 and 1 of 4. coach brought 2 girls up ,so now there is 11. 2 girls had missed a lot of practice, so coach replaced their spots, now their back and the girls told me that they were replaceing me with their friend and i was like NO! im your front spot! they still wont listen to me! i went to coach, but what can i do? HELP!
2006-08-14 16:30:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Theyr'e stupid little twits. Just stand your ground, stick to ur
guns. Don't let them push u around. And STOP being so
freakin nice !!!! That is why they feel they can push u.
Be a Biiaatch if u have to. Nice doesn't always get u respect.
Don't be passive~~Don't be aggressive. BE ASSERTIVE.
2006-08-14 16:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue about cheerleading but i do know about standing up for myself. if they have the power to replace people u need to fight for your spot stop being shy or they're always going to step on you because they know you won't do anything so show them wrong. if they don't have the power to replace anyone ignore the hell out of them.
2006-08-14 16:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by 209SiNtIa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being shy and stick up for wat u think is rite and do nto take crap from nobody
2006-08-14 16:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋