This guy looked many times at my direction over several Sundays during mass at a church. We get to introduce each other on one occasion. But I ignored or pretended to not see him for two Sundays and I sensed that he was a bit pissed by that on the last of those two Sundays. I tried making up for it by saying 'good morning' to him last Sunday. He greeted me back but didnt initiate any conversation when he was alone with me. I asked him a question but he seemed didn't bother. We exhanged hand shake during mass but he looked at another person while doing that. He didn't make any eye contact with me the entire mass. Did I just screw this up or was he playing hard to get? (getting back at me)
2006-08-14 16:06:51 · 12 answers · asked by JKST 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you think I should apologise to him for ignoring him? Would it seem weird as I don't want to make a fool out of myself.
2006-08-14 16:12:44 · update #1
There is another weird thing, his family, especially his younger brother, has been paying attention to me, not the 'sweet attention'. His brother stares at me, a little too rudely.
2006-08-14 16:20:32 · update #2
My answer to your question = If you are interested in this man then only a mutual feeling from him would be to your benefit in finding a good relationship. Unless he responds differently during your next encounter, he unfortunately, I would think has little interest in you..... You are probably looking for someone that would desire to be with you..... ( I would be ) .
To me Desire is very important in a relationship, and without desire love can never fully bloom.
My point if he had desire to be with you , he would go out of his way to have some sort of conversation with you .
Good Luck in finding your man.......
2006-08-14 16:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesson one about guys: "they don't play hard to get."
Lesson two about guys: "if they feel you're not interested, then they will not initiate anything because why should they ask you out if you're not interested?? they will just get embarrased at your rejection.
You let him know in no uncertain way that you're not interested. So why are you interested now? Is it that you want him now that he's moved on?
are you a game player??
This is what confuses me about women. they play these games called: "chase me even though I'll play hard to get."
Once, a long time ago, I asked this girl out.. twice. She tells me: "well, I don't think I'd go out with you, but keep asking me ok?"
I said: "yeah, sure". and never asked her again. Then she got pissed. Probably cause she didn't like being rejected.
Women.... they are Soooo weird.
As soon as I find out they are game players. I forget about them.
Of course, YMMV !!!
tom
2006-08-14 16:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one hand it seems like he's playing hard to get but in the other the fact that you're going to church just to see him, makes everything seem wrong.. If i were you, i would invite him to lunch after church or something, some where where it could just be the two of you.. Hope this helps..
2006-08-14 16:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by tink121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey, if he was interested he wouldn't play so hard to get. He would have pushed harder to get your attention in the first place. It seems to me that he is stuck up. He can't even look you in the eye should tell you something. I wouldn't waste my time on him.
2006-08-14 16:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by angeldolls4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just continue greeting him or saying hi and the hand shakes and all that...I dont think you srewed up anything...If he likes you he will again do what he did before..just give it time..but next time dont ignore him lol
2006-08-14 16:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this...
In EVERY "game" there is a winner & a loser. It NEVER feels good to be on the losing end of a game so why play them???
You played & from the sound of it "you" lost!!!
2006-08-14 16:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either trying to play it hard or totally lost interest in you...a guy wun have this kinda sudden chance without any valid reason..try to stay cool with your ground n c how he react..he shd give up his ego act soon....gd luck
2006-08-14 16:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mobiken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. By your question, I sense you're a very young girl!
2006-08-14 16:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will give you another chance if you just explain yourself. if he's playing hard to get, you can't get mad because you did the same thing.
2006-08-14 16:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you showed that you are not interested in that way you will have to totally start something for it to happen now. so if you want something you have to ask him out.
2006-08-14 16:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋