this girl i like is 13..im 15..she used to be all over me...i asked her out and she said idk maybe......it has been about a month now...and she has backd off big time....she told her friends she mite like me..now she's telling them she had no feelings for me at all....and its like she duznt really pay that much attention to me anymore..but ..me...and other people have noticed..she';; sneak glances at me all the time..and wehn i talk about other girls shell notice more..but her and her mom are really close and shes telling her she likes me..and.shes just scared cuz she duznt wanna ruin the friendship if we ever break up...but that she aslo cant make her mind up between me and this other guy...but her and my youth group recently went on a mission trip to costa rica..and when i talked to other people..they said she was really flirting with this other guy in my youth...... they got back last nite. and she aint emailed me or talkd 2 me yet..duz she like me.. or what ...what should i do??
2006-08-14 15:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i mean she knows i like her....so why did she back off??
2006-08-14 15:56:07 · update #1
so if she likes me and this other guy..why is she all over him now....like she used to be with me?? why did she just drop me??
2006-08-14 15:57:18 · update #2
There is just too much stuff going on for a 13 year old and a 15 year old. If you keep this up by the time you're 18 you'll both be on Jerry Springer. Back off some this is way too much.
2006-08-14 15:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm IDK If I were u I would either
A: Just give up for a while and let her come back to me + initiate things when she feels comfortable doing so
B: Be totally straightforward and ask her yourself, why she's playing games.
If she's acting the way she is, it means she likes you but she can't make up her mind. There is a tiny age difference and even though 2 years aint much in teen years that's like 5 years, she probably has feelings for the other guy, but likes u better, but she's just 13 and she doesn't know what she wants, she's confused, scared, and probably a little insecure!! You obviously mean something to her if she doesn't want to mess up the friendship up if anything goes wrong.
But if u really want to know what I think, she's so young, she's just a little girl, and I think you should put the romance thing on hold until she grows up more and becomes more mature, confident, and sure of herself. Don't completely forget about her but in the mean time try to find another hottie to crush on and let the girl come to you when she is ready. You can't force somebody to like you and be ur girlfriend, she has to decide who she wants more! And if it's not you then she's not worth it, and she's making a tragic mistake.
Trust me I'm a girl and I'm 16, I know what I'm talking about!!!!
Keep this quote in mind:
"Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fail to know, and sometimes our vision clears only after our eyes have been washed away with tears"
~and~
"If you Love something (somebody) set it free, If it (She) comes back it was meant to be but if it (she) doesn't then it wasn't!!"
I'm rooting for u pal u go get ur woman!!!
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2006-08-14 23:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by deby r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Confused,
If your not sure how she feels about you, ask her. Get things out in the open and that way you know where you stand. Some girls think they can have their cake and eat it too. But not with you, you need to find out so you dont' spend so much of your energy on her, when there could be another girl that is thinking the same thing about you. Wondering if you like her. If this girl does like you then she needs to make her mind up and not string you along.
2006-08-14 23:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally likes u!!! U 2 seem linked 2 each other or someting!!! She's just shy, she thinks that if u 2 go out and it dosen't work it will ruin your friendship. Just talk 2 her, and the answers will just come 2 u naturally!!!
2006-08-14 23:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds like she has no idea who she likes. I think she at least likes you, but is maybe afraid that it'll mess up your friendship if anything bad happens, so she found another guy. But, maybe she found another guy to see if you'd get jealous.
My advice is for you to go up to her and ask her how she feels. If she likes you, ask her out and there you go! If she says she doesn't, then move on. If she says she doesn't know, tell her to make up her mind! lol Good luck!
2006-08-14 23:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is make her jealous and fake going out with some one else that's just what i might do so don't get mad at me if i give u bad advice ive gone through something like this its tough but u will get through it
2006-08-14 23:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Zman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares life is too short to worry about that just find a new girl and let it be shes just a crazy 13 year old just let it go â¥
2006-08-14 23:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ The One You Love To Hate♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't freak out!
just relax and let life play out.
if ur ttly crazy about her, tell her how much she means to you.
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2006-08-14 23:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well this is the case, she is playin hard to get. once u tell a gurl u like them they like to pretend they dont like u, its basically a test. my advise to u is that u should ignore her a bit, if she really like u she'll start showin it again
2006-08-14 23:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by im all out of love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on!!! That i way too much drama for 15
2006-08-14 23:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by flower0781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋