I want to Breastfeeding. I am only 32 weeks pregnant with Child #1 I am actively looking for advice about breastfeeding so that hopefully I can be successful at breastfeeding my daughter or son when she or he arrives. Some Questions I have are:
1. Do I need a breastpump?
2. What can I expect when I first begin breastfeeding?
3. What are some warning signs that I need help from a specialist?
4. How can I prepare my body for breastfeeding leading up to delivery?
5. What are some things that have helped you stay focused and continuing your breastfeeding?
6. Do you need special nursing apparel?
7. What do I need to have when I go to deliver?
8. How can I keep from getting discouraged?
2006-08-14 15:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by humboldtpartygirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You have a good list of questions and it's good that you are thinking about this stuff and looking for information ahead of time.
1. Do I need a breastpump?
Will you be returning to work or will you be a SAHM? If you are going back to work, then you will want a good double electric pump such as the Medela Pump In Style. If you plan to stay home, you may not need a pump. If you will be a SAHM but might want to offer occasional bottles of pumped milk, I would suggest the Avent Isis manual pump.
2. What can I expect when I first begin breastfeeding?
You should NOT experience true toe curling pain. If you do, something is not right and you need the help of a Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) or a La Leche League Leader. It *IS* normal to have some discomfort though. Think of it this way.....you are using your body in a new way that it's never experienced before. Just like the first time you go out and shovel snow in the winter. That's difficult because your body isn't used to it. As the winter goes on, it gets easier. Breastfeeding is the same way.
Expect to feel like you are doing nothing but nursing for about the first 6 weeks. Babies go through a lot of growth spurts very close together during that time. Sleep when the baby sleeps and follow his lead about when he is hungry, which will be about every 2 hours around the clock. After the 6 week growth spurt, things tend to get easier. Baby may begin to have predictable patterns about when he need to eat and sleep. You'll definately see patterns by the time the 3 mos growth spurt ends.
3. What are some warning signs that I need help from a specialist?
Baby isn't having enough wet and poopy diapers. You have pain when nursing. Doc says baby isn't gaining enough weight. Baby doesn't regain birthweight by 2 weeks of age. Baby loses 10% or more of weight in the first week. (Remember that some weight loss is NORMAL in the first week, but 10% is too much.) Your nipples are raw, cracked, sore or bleeding.
4. How can I prepare my body for breastfeeding leading up to delivery?
There is nothing you need to do to prepare your body. It can help to go to La Leche League and get to know other nursing mothers and meet your Leader. Then you'll be more comfortable calling her if you need help after the baby arrives. And you'll form a good support network too.
5. What are some things that have helped you stay focused and continuing your breastfeeding?
There's a link I'll put below called "what if I want to wean my baby" that really kept me going with my first baby. (All three of mine nursed well beyond a year.) Ut talks about benefits of nursing based on baby's age. Also, going to LLL helped me.
6. Do you need special nursing apparel?
Not really. It makes some mothers more comfortable to have it though. I did have some special nursing clothes. I used them the most with my first child. Then I figured out how to layer regular clothing and realized how very little anyone can truely see. The main reason I liked them was actually because it made pumping so easy since I worked when my first was born. I did like having a nursing dress for any special occasions. And nursing bras are a must have. Get fitted for one towards the end of your pregnancy.
7. What do I need to have when I go to deliver?
Some Lansinoh cream and some breast pads.
8. How can I keep from getting discouraged?
Keep in mind that you are doing something so important and so special for your child and that EVERY DROP of breastmilk is wonderful and will benefit both of you.
2006-08-14 16:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Do I need a breastpump?
it depends on if you plan on going out without baby for longer periods (like work)
2. What can I expect when I first begin breastfeeding?
it will be awkward at first. baby will know what to do but that doesn't mean that it will be easy. Make sure you ask the nurses any questions. Don't be embarrassed. I took a breastfeeding class and still didn't know exactly what to do.
3. What are some warning signs that I need help from a specialist?
any redness or lumps could be a sign of infection.
4. How can I prepare my body for breastfeeding leading up to delivery?
really your body is already preparing. There isn't a lot you can do. Just make sure that you have breast pads to help control leaking. I liked the cloth ones better than the disposable ones. They were more comfortable.
5. What are some things that have helped you stay focused and continuing your breastfeeding?
Don't allow anyone that makes you nervous in the room. At first you may want it to be only you and baby until you get comfortable. Just use the time to look over your precious new baby!
6. Do you need special nursing apparel?
I only got a nursing bra. You don't have to have one but they are nice. I didn't buy any of the shirts. I did always have a blanket to snuggle baby with though.
7. What do I need to have when I go to deliver?
Just the bra and the breast pads for nursing anyway.
8. How can I keep from getting discouraged?
La Leache is a wonderful group to help new moms that are nursing. Look them up in the phone book or ask at the hospital. The hospital may also run classes for nursing. I also recommend joining a message board for moms that are going through or have gone through what you are going through. It is a wonderful bonding experience for you and your new baby. Just keep you mind on the extra time you get to spend with your little one and the good start to life you are giving him/her. Good Luck!!
2006-08-14 23:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by mommato4boys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. I found that a breastpump was good for me 'cause if my boobs really started to hurt then I could just pump for a bit and it would take the pain away. It also helps to help you produce more milk. Its also great if dad want to feed the baby then you can pump and he can feed the baby. I would reccomend the Avent pump..I used the single manual pump. It didn't hurt at all and it worked great!!
2. It will hurt. And it will take time for you to get the hang of it and for the baby to get the hang of it.
3. If you find that your baby isn't latching on properly, or you find that your nipples are bleeding then I would see someone. I reccomend going to a breastfeeding clinic, they are a great helpand can give you great advice and show you different technices
4. What you can do is take your two index fingers and gently strech your nipple. I know that it might sound weird but it will help get your nipple ready.
5. Just remember that its the best thing for your baby to atleast breastfeed for a month or so. You are bonding with you child.
6. A nursing bra helps and making it more confinent
7. Some soothing music, change of clothes, slippers, comfortable clothes to wear while you are there. Clothes for baby, diapers if the hospital doesn't profide them for you, Wipes. Some snacks for you, and daddy.
8. Think of the bonding time that you will have with your baby.
2006-08-14 23:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
congratulations! you have made a very wise and wonderful decision to breastfeed your child when he or she arrives.
being a first time mother myself, i too made the decision to breastfeed even before my daughter was born. as everything seems so new, i started reading on breastfeeding, be it books, magazines, articles, brochures, websites...everything i could get my hands on to and it helped tremendously.
however i must tell you that the practical side of it might differ from your reading but as you go along, everything else will just fall into place. reading helps to alleviate any concerns, fears or even misunderstanding on breastfeeding and this will help to keep your spirit high while continuing breastfeeding.
at the end of the day, the bond that is created between my daughter and i just keep me going (though i wake up with backaches in the morning!). just having her close to me is a beautiful feeling. these are all the wonders of breastfeeding and nothing in the world could ever substitute that. stay focused and be determined enough and you will be able to go through any obstacles that come your way.
so dear mother, start your reading today and you shall be fine. there are a lot of things that you can pick up; breastfeeding techniques, the correct nursing apparel and so much more.
congratulations and good luck!
2006-08-14 23:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lyne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to make up your mind to do it and then follow through. None of this "I'm going to try it" stuff. Don't "try" it - do it! It will be great for you and for your baby!
1. You should get a good breastpump - I recommend Medela (www.medela.com) It's expensive but worth it. The cheap ones you buy in the store are just frustrating.
2.You can expect it to hurt just a little, until you and baby get used to it. You can expect to feel like all you do is nurse (Mooooo). You can expect to feel great about doing it!
3. Get help from a specialist anyway! Most hospitals have a lactation consultant/nurse that will come see you if you ask. They can help with techniques, support, boosting your confidence.
4. You really can't.
5. My husband's support was huge - he didn't let me give up when i was discouraged - he told me I could do it and helped me find help - he was wonderful. Find someone like that in your life!
6. It's nice to have but not totally neccessary. With the exception of a few nursing bras - they are invaluable. The thing about nursing tops/nightgowns, etc. is that you can be more discreet out in publice. If you have to haul up a t-shirt or unbutton a blouse you can't really do it in public.
7. I recommend a boppy or other nursing pillow. I used them and loved them. When the baby starts sitting up you can use them to support her too. Get the kind with the removable cover so you can wash it. Also get some lansinoh cream - it works great when you get sore.
8. You can do this! It's not automatic - it's a learning experience for both you and baby. Each time I nursed a new baby it was different - but it was so worth it. ( I nursed 3).
Finally, GET RID OF ALL OF THE FREE SAMPLES OF BABY FORMULA THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN. (I was given a lot). It is too tempting when you get frustrated to just open a can of formula...
Good luck!
2006-08-14 23:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by wjroof 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check with your ob/gyn or the hospital where you will deliver, and see if they have a lactation consultant. She would be able to answer all your questions. As far as preparing before you deliver, it is a good idea to leave your breasts alone. Nipple stimulation can release a hormone that could possible bring on early labor. A breast pump is a REALLY good idea, but try to avoid cheaper, department store brands and invest in a really good one. Medela is the best. When you begin, how it works will depend on many things so expect to not know what to expect. The biggest warning signs of problems would be, no weight gain or a weight loss for the baby, or a hard, tender and hot feeling in part of your breast. Nursing bras are a really good thing, but I felt I wasted my time and money on "nursing shawls". Receiving blankets work just fine to cover yourself while you nurse. As far as staying focused, just kow that you are doing what is best for you and your baby. I breast fed three and looking into their little faces while they ate, and knowing that I was 100% responsible for their growth and develpment from conception, until they ate their first bite of cereal made it worth it.
2006-08-14 23:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Helen T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to do anything to prepare your body for breastfeeding. It does it itself. (Montgomery Tubercles)
You will want a breastpump, and to be honest, the best pump I ever used, even up against the hospital and medical grade ones, was the Avent Isis. You can get it at your drug store for around forty-five dollars.
If your baby is fussy after feedings, or is latching on on a way that causes you pain, consult a lactation consultant. Most hospitals have them on staff. When you have your baby, you should ask for them, and they will come to your room, and help you out and give you pointers to be sure you get the best start.
Focus on all the benefits of breastfeeding if you get discouraged. They are numerous and indisputable.
You will need to purchase a minimum of two good nursing bras, and I recommend waiting till your eighth month to do so, so that you get the best sizing. You do not need expensive nursing apparel, but it does make things easier.
Talk to someone from LaLeche League to give you support.
Tell your doctor and the hospital personnel forcefully that you will be breastfeeding, and not to give your baby a pacifier or any bottles.
The biggest tip I can give you is to breastfeed immediately after the birth, with lots of skin-to-skin contact. You will be amazed, as most babies will root around to find your nipple.
Be sure when you insert your nipple into baby's mouth, the brown area should go in most of the way as well. If they are not latched here, they can not compress the ducts to get milk, and it will hurt! Never pull baby off, but break the suction at the side of their mouth with your pinky finger. If it hurts, take baby off, and relatch them with plenty of the areaola in their mouth.
2006-08-14 23:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by alone1with3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
breast is best. Good for you. First you should know that one day breast feeding is better than none at all.
1. Yes you need a pump. You will have full breast the first few days after birth. Start pumping and saving then. Manual or electrical both work good.
2. breast feeding may hurt at first. latching on may hurt for a while. Do not give up. Make sure the baby is latched on correctly. the nurses will help you.
3. You should not have problems
4.prepare by eating 300 calories per day while pregnant and increasing it to 500 while breast feeding. Drink lots!!!!
5.just know breast is best. do not get discouraged. It provides a closeness you will never get again.
6.get a few nursing bras. And have a blanket handy for covering yourself around company.
7.nothing special
8.if you can only breast feed for 1 day or 1 year you did it you tried it and you did your best.
best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-08-14 23:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by flowersandhearts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, first of all relax. Women have been doing this for as long as mankind has been here. It is the most natural thing in the world and your body was made for this.
BTW, my first weaned when he was 3 years old and I was pregnant with my second. She is 1 and still nursing.
So, the breastpump is a good idea. I have a hand one from Medela. I don't pump often so it'll do. It depends on whether you are going back to work right away. If so, you may want to check into buying or renting (from the hospital or the La Leche League) a power pump.
2. What to expect. Well, when you first give birth your milk doesn't come in for 2 to 3 days. Your baby won't get hungry but will want to suckly immediately. You body will produce colostrum. A highly nutritional substance that is chocked full of anti-bodies that will start her immune systems up right away. Then your milk will come in. Your breasts will fill up and it will really hurt. No way around it, it is painful. Some things that will help, standing in a warm or hot shower. Pumping will relieve it but the more you pump the more you will make. I found that ice packs also helped. When the baby latches on during this time, it is toe curling painful. Thankfully, this goes away relitively quickly. Think of it as a right of passage!
3. Some signs you may need a specialist...most hospitals have a lactation specialist that will help you in the hospital with how to help the baby latch on and different holds. Also, call up the La Leche League, they are every where and have specialist that will help you with any concerns and/or problems you may have.
Also, check out Mothering magazine they are also online. It is a great resourse. For that matter you can to to La Leche League online too.
4. Preparing for breastfeeding. Just make sure you are drinking lots of water. Other than that, trust you body.
5. I have done a lot of research on breastfeeding so knowing the benefits and staying committed to raising my baby in as natural a way as possible has. To tell you the truth, I love it and have no problems staying committed. Ok, well night nursing starts to get you down. I weaned my son from night nursing at 14 months and am preparing to wean my daughter from night nursing. I need some sleep!
6. Nursing apparel. I found some cheap and good bras and nursing camisole type shirst at Target. You will find them in the maternity section. You will also need some breast pads. I found the cotton ones that you wash and re-use to work just fine. However, I needed about 20 at first to keep me up to date. You can also cut up some old receiving blankets or anything else that is soft and absorbant to stick into your bra. Also, don't forget some lanolin to help avoid cracking nipples. It's safe for babies and good for you.
7. You don't need anything in particular to deliver just make sure that your doctor and the nurses know that you are committed to breastfeeding and need their help to do so.
8. Just keep on keepin on sister. The time you spend with your child nursing will never be replaced or duplicated by anything else. You will look back on this when you wee one is older and be thankful you made this decision to start you child out on the right foot as well as help create a bond between you that will last a lifetime.
Oh, consider co-sleeping. Either putting the baby in bed with you (I have done it with both) or getting a co-sleeper (attaches to your bed for baby to sleep in). It makes night nursing soooo much easier. As to the sleeping with baby, you will be surprised at how easy and safe it is (it has also shown to cut down on the instances of SIDS)
You are making the right decision. You need to surround yourself with people who support it 100% and be clear with those who don't that they can bugger off. Nothing worthwhile is easy. If it were easy, men would do it!
Good luck on your new journey!
2006-08-14 23:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your questions...
1) Get a manual pump for now. Medela makes the Harmony... about $35. If you don't have any issues with nursing, you'll only use it sporadically. If however you have problems with nursing (and you want to work through them until you get it right), you'll need a double electrical pump... and I recommend the Ameda Purely Yours... about $160.
2) You can expect some pain, fumbling, latching problems, engorgement, etc... (I'm sure you've read all of it anyway). Remember that the first couple of days, you have colustrum... your milk will not come in until day 3 or 4.
3) Warning signs would be that baby is not getting enough milk at each feeding. You'll know this by the baby's crying after nursing (because they'll be hungry). Latching on problems... you'll know by experiencing pain... you don't see the baby swallowing often. You breasts constantly getting engorged with milk causing pain because you're too full or you're not allowing baby to empty one breast completely before starting on the next (this causes clogged ducts). I say if you don't start seeing results with your nursing after day 4 or 5, contact a lactation consultant for an immediate appointment. I paid $170 for one visit... and worth every penny.
4) There's no preparation needed for breastfeeding. Your body will be ready.
5) Deciding that breastfeeding was going to be the best option for my child. It gets worse before getting better... so you have to remember that when the going gets tough in the beginning.
6) No special apparel. A couple of good nursing bras to start will be fine until you get comfortable with nursing. Then you'll want to pick up a few more bras once your breast have passed that enormous stage. Also pick up some pads for leaks.
7) All you'll need is a change of clothes for you to come home in. For the baby, whatever they'll need to wear home. Bring some extra receiving blankets to use as a cover up, or to brace baby in car seet (rolled up). Don't take a night gown (it will get ruined). I didn't even take a nursing bra. I just used whatever the hospital provided as a gown. I did bring some socks and a robe for those few occassions I got up to walk around. That's it!
8) As long as you tell yourself... you're going to nurse and that's the end of the story... you'll stick to it. Look at your baby and remind yourself that your milk is the best defense your baby has to building an immune system. It digests perfectly for baby's little body. No allergies, very little gas, and baby can have as much of it as possible without having to worry about over feeding. It's also FREE (if you do the math... you'll save yourself $1000 in formula over a 6 month course). No need to warm bottles, or sanitize anything. It's always available at just the right temperature. It couldn't get any easier. Plus, you'll lose your weight much quicker. What a bonus!
I still nurse my son (13 months old) while 4 months pregnant with my second. In the beginning, I had every obstacle you could imagine. For the first 10 weeks... I pumped my milk every 2-3 hours because my son couldn't latch on properly... (kept his tongue to the roof of his mouth... and I had a collapsed right nipple). Trust me, I tried throughout those weeks to get him to nurse (with lots of pain on my part). Though I went to a lactation consultant (who clued me in that it wasn't my method... but that I had physical obstacles preventing me from nursing), I couldn't really nurse each feeding until my son got a bit bigger (so that his mouth could latch on properly). I had 3 bouts of mastitis... and many, many nights of crying and wanting to give up. But I told myself that he was worth the pain... and finally... after 10 weeks, it was smooth sailing.
I'm not telling you this to scare you... I'm being honest about my experience. But I should also tell you that no matter what the obstacles, you can always find a solution. You may have no problems at all... and find that you were made for nursing. But do expect some roadblocks. Alot of women go through feelings on inadequacy if they don't get the nursing right the first time. It can be quite upsetting. If you ever feel that way, contact your local La Leche League volunteer and they'll talk to you about your particular issues. They'll help you not to give up.
Breast is best. Don't give up. It's the best defense your child will have.
2006-08-14 23:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by VixenMom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋