my BFF(dianne) told me that my other Xbest friend(anais) said "who do you think is most likely to be anorexic in the grade" and nobody said anything and she goes "JENNESSA!" (thats me) So i confronted Anias about it and she said sorry... but i wont forgive her... she has always been likely to betray! am i overexaggerating that i dont want her as a back stabbing bff?
2006-08-14 15:44:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
SHE HAS DONE THIS GOSSIP STUFF B4!
2006-08-14 16:05:53 · update #1
ok, heres the thing, that is what girls do. i no that it is sad and mean but every girl has said something bad about a friend behind there back its just that most of the time you dont find out about it. I think that you should talk to your "x" bestfriend and tell her how it made you feel, i know that sounds lame but just do it. Trust me this is not a big deal and dont escalade it into drama when it doesnt have to be!
2006-08-14 16:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel bad too...because then it makes us feel sad when we look in the mirror and it was not right for her to say that behind your back..if she said that you dont know what else she has been saying bout you...so i would keep her as just a friend not a best friend..best friends dont say anything wrong bout thier true friends ....
2006-08-14 23:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset too. You can forgive her, but do it for yourself. You come before a backstabbing friend. Take some time, and so me deep breathes. Then decide where you want to take it from there.
2006-08-14 22:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Molly M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her why you're upset at her and make sure she knows that you hate gossiping. Then tell her you will give her one more chance - everyone deserves one more chance, right? If she does it again, cut off all ties.
2006-08-15 01:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋