2006-08-14 15:36:55 · 28 answers · asked by kennychen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you can love who you want as long as you both are happy.
2006-08-14 15:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, loving somebody different from your race is very very okay and normal, but, way older? Like, how many age gap are we talking here? How old are you? How old is he/she?
2006-08-14 22:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. What are the odds that you would actually find someone in your own race, your own age, where you live? People say that there is one person in the world for everyone. The odds that that one person is your own age, race, and proximity is completely a shot in the dark. Go for it.
2006-08-14 22:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jebnifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on other things.
-if you are still under 18 NO.
-f you are not aware of the challenges you will face being with someone from a different race or age group and you don't know how to deal with it, then NO. (that includes living in la-la land and not facing reality.
Otherwise, I dont see why not.
2006-08-14 22:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by prtybrwneyez1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not love people for their age or race. A human is human no matter what. Besides the heart is who decides with whom you fall in love with. Be happy and enjoy every minute of it.
2006-08-14 22:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not tell you that it is wrong. I will tell you that people will all look at you. Some will think you are wrong and others not. Some will come right out and tell you what they think , good or bad. So you will have to be strong. As for your children ?????
Love is love ! People are people ! I know you wanted me to tell you it is ok. Well I am telling you it is Ok. But I think you need to know what you may or may not ne faceing. I am not trying to afend you or make you mad . But you asked.
2006-08-14 22:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got 2 hurdles to jump over huh! Well, there is nothing wrong dating outside your race, & as far as them being older than you..... Hmmm, that's a tough one. I guess it depends on your level of maturity. But that doesn't sound solid enough for you huh? I really don't know.
good luck
2006-08-14 22:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "diffrent race" part should be no problem, however the age difference may make others uncomfortable
2006-08-14 22:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sum_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I married a white man and he is 6 years older then me. As long as you are happy why not?
2006-08-14 22:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Gibran once said...Think not you can guide the course of love; for love if it finds you worthy shall guide your course.
2006-08-14 22:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by justthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay as long as there are no control issues. Older men tend to be more controlling....be careful!
2006-08-14 22:41:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋