some girl that me and my boyfriend have both worked with got married a few months ago and didn't invite us to her wedding. now we are getting married and she expects to be invited to ours. other than the fact she didn't invite us to hers i wouldn't have a problem inviting her, we were friends when we worked together should i get over it or invite her (if anything else it's one more gift)?
2006-08-14 15:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oops i meant should i get over it AND invite her
2006-08-14 15:35:20 · update #1
i know that she hurt your feeling and all but you don't want to be the devil. It's kinda like saying you pushed me off the bridge so i'm going to do the same thing.Be the bigger person and invite her to your wedding think of it this way maybe she just forgot you with all the presure.
2006-08-14 15:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by anomanous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could have been a lot more to her not inviting you to her wedding like the fact there where to many people invited, etc. If you can invite her then I would but to hold a grudge is wrong and you might regret the day if you don't invite her.
2006-08-14 23:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like her to be there, then by all means! It's your special day, and you should be surrounded by all the people that make you happy. But if you're just feeling guilty because she wants to go, or you're tight on the guest list, just tell her it's a small wedding with mostly close family.
I'm getting married soon too, and when it comes to the guest list, my fiance and I are going by the rule of "is this someone we will know in 5 years?" That might help you too :).
2006-08-14 22:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her!! Celebrate your wedding, open your gifts and be happy. Live and let live - you'll live longer.
2006-08-14 22:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I she a Person thats enjoyable and nice to hang around with?
If she is, Invite her, If she is not, then don't.
2006-08-14 22:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only invite her if you WANT her there. if you don't, then what is the point?
2006-08-16 15:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. u should invite her. show her you're a better person than she is..
2006-08-14 22:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Monkichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"a friend in need is a friend indeed."
2006-08-14 22:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its a dead end!!!! they ddi not care about you....so u dont should care for them.....traitors!!!!!! >:(
2006-08-14 22:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by thecure_2_late 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why yes if you can!
2006-08-14 22:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by pingz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋