i have gone out with men and thay alway go back to ex girlfrined and ex wife.i don`t know why .
2006-08-14 15:32:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think because they gave up to easily on the relationship. People really don't hang in there like they should anymore. I don't believe you should stay in an abusive relationship or if someone is cheating. However, just because you are bickering a bit isn't a reason to sack the relationship either. If you don't give your relationship every try you can then you will always look back and think "What if I....".
Try to only date people that have been out of the relationship for awhile, at least a year if it was marriage or long term to protect yourself.
2006-08-14 15:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Mad Maddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 04:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have pondered this thought many sleepless nights myself...
I think it is because being with an ex is 'better' than being alone... But the same problems that ended the relationship keep coming up! People are deluded if they think they can change another person to suit them. I have yet to see a Recycled Relationship that works out.
2006-08-14 15:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A few reasons. One, they haven't closed that chapter in their lives yet. Two, they may have children together. Three, they go back to what's "familiar" to them because this is their comfort zone. Four, they're intimidated or scared of their new relationship. Last (not least), they realize they still love their ex wives/gf's and want a second chance with them.
2006-08-14 15:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 17:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They go back for any number of reasons. They go back because the exgf or ex-wife takes them back. They go back because old habits die hard. Because she is a security blanket. Because they realize the grass wasn't greener on the other side.
2006-08-14 15:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They didn't learn their lesson the first time. They're an Ex for a reason.
2006-08-14 15:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it seems to happen to me a lot too. but i figure, it's a lot easy to go with something or in this case, someone that you're used to rather than take time to get used to someone else. that's probably an example of this.
2006-08-14 15:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Laur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they go back sometimes for the children or their families have convinced them thats where they should be,others go back for the money or they where in charge and need to superior
2006-08-14 15:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the men you went out with no longer wanted a relationship with you.
2006-08-14 15:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋