Is this an insult tht your not tight enough?or what?And are there just all these woman out there putting it out anally?I dont like getting pushed to to it!
2006-08-14 15:23:15 · 19 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because there d i c k to littel!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 15:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of something new. The chance you may grow to love it.
It is tighter but doubt that is the reason for most.
I would say it has a lot to do with the same turn on that oral sex has.
While I am sure the thing about insult could be said of some men but most do not have that as a reason.
Bottom line, no pun intended, is that if you don't want to do it don't. It is your body and if you think it will hurt or is degrading to you tell your husband. If you decide you want to find out what it is all about please use Lot's of lube and he must go very very easy and be willing to stop when you want to.
2006-08-14 15:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't an insult that you're not tight enough. For some reason, guys think that anally is forbidden enough that it is a turn on. I'm not sure if it seems like another woman or what, but it is a turn on! My wife is like you. She isn't too interested in doing it, but has, on occasion, let me. If you want to know more, you can contact me. I don't want to say too much here because my 16 yr old daughter likes to read my answers. good luck
2006-08-14 16:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's different, tighter and something not easy to get, so it makes it more wantable!
And if he says it's not tight enough......just come back with maybe he's not big enough!
As for putting it out, few and far between, but there are women who actually prefer it to the other hole.
Best advice, lots of lube and a bigger crank!(on the not tight enough comment) ; )
2006-08-14 15:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi from what i have hurd its because they think we will enjoy it
As there g-spot in in there anise they just automatically think we would enjoy it that way to .
This dosent mean your partner or husband has to be gay or even ever had anal sex its just a hormone thing and most guys just assume we like it that way. Just say No.My husband has asked me be for and i said no thanks and he hasn't botheres asking again so if your being pushed into something you dont want you need to speek out
2006-08-14 15:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get that alot from my husband to do it anally its annoying if u ask me. My hubby says it bc its supposed to be tight but getting done in the booty after a while can get loose too and by the is far more disgusting then a loose ****. Men can live with them cant live without them! Oh what is a woman to do lol
2006-08-14 15:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you say no a man who loves you will take that as the answer. I have never forced a girl to do anything she doesn't. A real man will do likewise. If your man forces you to have anal sex with him, the only answer is to dump him. Good luck xxx
2006-08-14 15:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one husband that has no desire for anal sex...
Look, everyone has their own set of sexual wants. You just need to find someone who matchs your wants. Simple, then you'll both be happy. You won't have to do something you're not into, and your hubby won't have to not do something he is into.
2006-08-14 15:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i believe in keeping sex full of spice & variety-yes, my man enjoys it b/c it is tighter & smaller there but anal sex is a "treat" for him. we don't have anal on a regular basis-that's what makes it so good
2006-08-14 15:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do most women take everything as an insult or suspect something is up? Maybe he just wants variety.
2006-08-14 15:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all husbands are into anal... but if your husband likes it then just try it out with him,it's better then him getting it elsewhere...
you have to be relaxed and lubed up and his penis as well... or it will hurt...(so im told) i never had it but would try it
2006-08-14 15:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋