I was seeing this girl a while ago after she had broken up with her boyfriend. Even when she was with him in the first place, I couldn't stand seeing her with him. Thing of it is, before that, I thought I was gay, but I'm attracted emotionally (and sometimes sexually) to her.
She still has feelings for her ex, and I'm not sure if I should back off or go for it. I'm so confused. I get so happy around her.
2006-08-14 15:12:18 · 4 answers · asked by saul 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
She says shes over her ex now, but she seemed mad when he didnt return her IM's today. I just don't know. Overall, she's as confusing as me too.
2006-08-14 15:22:27 · update #1
Yes. You are attracted towards her for her looks and sexual appeal to your impulses, but were envious of her boy friend for the same reason. Now on knowing that she has broken away from her BF, you are feeling emotionally attracted towards her. Further, the feelings within you to be physically closer to her have become stronger because it is safer for you to be with her now when she has been deserted by her BF. But have you thought for a while, whether she will respond to you? Otherwise, you will land up in serious frustration. These all happen due to the chemistry in the body; try to understand by looking at yourself as a laboratory.
2006-08-14 15:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has feelings for the ex, that is a clue you should back off. If you have feelings for her emotionally/sexually, you may be bi or need to re-think your sexual preference.
2006-08-14 15:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then your not gay...If your attracted to a woman, then your not gay! And, now would be the perfect time to make your move so she forgets about her ex. Well, that's my opinion at least.
2006-08-14 15:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek professional help.
2006-08-14 15:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋