ive noticeable a lot of change in my best friend lately. when we met, she was a bright, witty, sweet and funny girl. i fell for her instantly (friendship wise) lately she has changed a lot. she has become a lot more upset and doesnt open up to anybody anymore. her brother and dad are off for army duties, and her mom has hit her more then enough times. she talks about being really lonely and just sad. i try my hardest to save her, help her, anything. it hurts me worse then anything in the entire world to see her upset, but i feel helpless. this girl means the world to me and i have to up most loyalty to her, she is so special to me.
so, my question is, what should i do to help her? she tries on her own,i can tell, but shes tired of fighting. is there anything i CAN do?
serious inquires only please!
2006-08-14 15:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH WOW thats really a tough situation for both you and your friend, i know how ppl like your friend feels, its feels really bad anyway Check this tips out; you can try to help her by always being there for her When [and only WHEN] she WANTS to talk, you shouldnt force her to tell you anything, life is not always pretty there are many obstacles in the way, and i think its the person's own battle to fight it by his or her self and can ask for help if it get out of hand...but in the mean time make sure she talks to someone that could help her with problems also try to keep her from goin home early in case her mother in not in the mood for any bull$h!+...JUST DO THE BEST THAT YOU CAN!!!!
ALWAYS BE THERE WHEN SHE WANTS TO TALK CUZ THATS THE MOST HELP YOU CAN DO NOW!
2006-08-14 15:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. My best friend is in a similar position so i can kind of feel what you mean. What i do is give her space cause keep her too close while push her farther away. Make sure she knows your there for her morning to night and every once and awhile get her a little something. My 2 Bestfriends are going through depression right now. So i'll get them a get well basket with mags, candy, a book and pen stuff like that. Juss be a friend there's not much more you can do. good luck!
2006-08-14 22:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kate B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE HER LIKE NO OTHER! she is not getting enough love from her family so YOU need to be her family, never give up on her she may act different but inside she is the same person. She does not want to be this way but she has been through alot. Take to her, things will get better. Do things that will make her happy most of the time that just means being there for her!
good luck
2006-08-14 23:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would of helped to say how old she is, but clearly she is depressed and it would do well for to get consoling. And even another family member such as an aunt for her to stay with. Things really sound messed up for her at home, so invite her to stay with you as much as possible and talk to her about getting some outside help.
2006-08-14 22:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! All i can think of is keep being there for her and ask her if theres anything she can do to get out of the house and keep things cool with u and her family....maybe she can get a cool job or get in to school activities.
2006-08-14 22:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by elisa21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk to her and her mother need to stop hiting her maybe that is adding up on depression and maybe she misses her father and her brother.You should really start helping her more mabye she might even leading up to killing herself.
2006-08-14 22:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if i were u u should ask her if she wants to talk and dat u would be there for her any time any day. And if she wants to talk that your the girl to talk to. Then wat ever u think u can help her wit u tell her.
2006-08-14 22:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be into drugs. find out and help her get out of it if she is into it
2006-08-14 22:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaa she is trying lone..cause genios dont often ask for help...and she knows she is injured...not much as sickness..but injured...find her a wizard....one that you may trust in....
2006-08-14 22:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by lins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋