how can i become 'my own' anonymous proxy provider? do i need to purchase something ? if so what and where?

Answer 1

Try installing this on your host: http://www.jmarshall.com/tools/cgiproxy/
I never tried it, but it looks like what you might be looking for. But remember, anonymity is relative. On the Internet, there will always be some party which will know your identity (in this case, your ISP). Good luck!