Someone I am sort of interested in said he had a girlfriend but a couple of weeks ago helped her move like 10 states away. I don't know why she moved but I'm just assuming for college (I don't know how old). Should I make a move on him? Would you still stay with someone who has moved so far?
2006-08-14 14:49:05 · 18 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Distance usually does one of two things to a relationship: make it stronger, or make it fizzle out.
If I were you, I'd just take it slow and easy. Be nice to the guy...be a friend...but don't make too many real "aggressive" moves right now. Give things a while to perculate...
Keep in mind...his girlfriend is off at college, and she'll be meeting new guys, etc. Also, he could decide that he'd rather have a sweety pie whom he can actually do things with, rather than someone far away.
Just don't give off the wrong vibe: "She's gone...hot diggity...now's my chance...let's git nekkid!"
Some fish you gotta wiggle your bait a long time, and play 'em real slow.
Good luck...
2006-08-14 14:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a. No, you shouldn't make a move on him.
b. Yes, I would.
Why are you making so many assumptions about why the other woman has moved away?
Couple of insights for you:
HUMAN TRUTH 1: Men value pus*y, and value convenient, readily-available, in-the-same-state pus*y even more.
7-11 stores do good business, but that's not because of the quality of their merchandise. It's because they're...well, there at the right time and in the right place.
HUMAN TRUTH 2: Neither men nor women really respect people who are opportunists. I mean, do you?
LIFE TRUTH: What goes around, comes around.
So if you hook up with this guy, go out of town for three weeks, and return to find him in bed with another woman, please don't scream: that would make you a Grade A+ hypocrite.
Put all this together, and go figure it out for yourself.
2006-08-14 16:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bowzer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move! but you should wait a couple weeks because long distance relationships never work. Assuming the worst of he does want to keep the relationship going, he'll soon figure out it will not work especially if he has a nice girl like you who wants to hook up :)
2006-08-14 14:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by gasdf a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking for me, and being a grown mature man, yes i truly am, I would not have moved my girlfriend 10 states away unless i really didn't want her. So, it might be possible that you might be able to take this guy. But as I do not know him I cannot give you an accurate answer. Might be best to just sit back a while and watch and see if SHE tosses him.
2006-08-14 15:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 37 year old single father of a 14 year old girl. My opinion is, if you are looking for something real lay back and let things happen. If you steal him from someone esle maybe he can be stolen from you. Tell him your fellings and intentions and respect his wishes. If it's ment to be it will be.
Hope this helps in some way
2006-08-14 15:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by twice2x2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anyone can carry a long distance relationship, especially if it's 10 states away. Give it a shot, but see what his current situation is, first.
2006-08-14 14:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him outright if he is open to dating other women. If yes, he should get the hint, or you can ask him out. If he says he's trying to make things work with his long-distance girlfriend, show your respect for him by not moving in on him while his girlfriend is out of town.
2006-08-14 14:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by montijo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, If they've been together for a long time, he might still consider her his girlfriend. You should wait, if he likes you he will make a move.
2006-08-14 14:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know him well enough to talk to?I mean
carry on a conversation with?Talk to him,find out where his head`s at,eventually slip in that you may be interested.
by the way,is 50+mature enough?Good luck,
Be well.
2006-08-14 16:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋