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I have a baby daddy. We were living together for 2 yrs when I got pregnant. I was in my first year of college when I got preggo and wanted to consider different options (consider).
When I told him this he flew off the handle. He told me that if I was to Consider anything...our relationship was over.
Just the thought of loosing him was to much to bare. So I continued the pregnancy.
1 month before the baby was due he walked out on me.
It was so hard to deal with.
He didn't make it to the birth or show any interest in his child.
He was in and then out of his life. When my son was 3 he left and cut all contact with us.
I have since re-married and my husband has taken full responsibility for our child.
In Febuary I got a phone call from him just out of the blue...this is 5 yrs after hearing NOTHING.
I called him back and we met up...we stayed the night at a hotel...and well that's where out affair began.
That was 6 months ago....his phone calls have now stopped.

2006-08-14 14:45:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

9 answers

what are you risking a good man over one who walked out on your and your baby. let him go. do not talk to him. if he cared about his son he wouldn't have gone 5 years without any contact.
he used you. he probably was having problems with his girlfriend or wife and used you because he could. don't give him that kind of power. you have no need to speak to him again. through this affair did he at least offer any support for your son? if the answer to that is no, that tells you what kind of an a******e he really is. i guarantee you he's back with his girlfriend or he found a new one and that's why the phone calls have stopped. let it go. he's not worth it.

one more thing. ask yourself this question: if your husband is so good to you and your son, why would you cheat on him in the first place? once you can answer that question HONESTLY, then you'll be able to figure out what to do with your life. good luck

2006-08-14 15:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0 0

Girl, how could you cheat on your husband like that?
Look, women always say they want a Good Man--you found a man who took care of your baby even though his sorry behind father didn't take care of him. Plus, you were lucky enough to find a man who was willing to date a single mother. And, that's how you re-pay him for all this love and devotion to you and your son--you sleep with the sorry Baby Daddy?

Well, I don't know. You need to find God. You need to repent an ask God to Forgive You. And you need to stop.

Your Baby Daddy doesn't love you or care about you. When he found out you were married--it hurt his ego--so he slept with you to prove that "he's the man". He made a fool of your husband, and turned you into an Adulterer. Stay away from him--he's bad news.

Good Luck

2006-08-14 22:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0 0

dont learn, do you? ive seen this happen before and it never ceases to amaze me. i realize that the first true love is the strongest and sometimes never really goes away, but its no excuse for stupidity. people leave others for a reason, if no one has changed and you get back together, that reason sooner or later will resurface. you must really want an asskicking or else you wouldnt have put this on here. nah, this is to stupid to be real. a weak moment, my mind was on something else anyway.

2006-08-14 22:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by chris l 5 · 0 0

Sounds to me that he was just looking for some quick satisfaction. You should have known better since he left you when you were pregnant.

What a waste. You cheated on your husband who is committed to you and probably a very loving man. that is very very sad.

2006-08-14 21:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0 0

keep your family honey, he left you once and nothiong is gonna hold him back to do that again
so u have to pay attention to your family, to your husband and your son, and let him **** off. I dont think you have the age to do all this kind of adventure

hope this really helps on making up your mind
Good luck

2006-08-14 21:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Aldi_NYC 2 · 0 0

Whatever you do, don't tell your current husband about the affair. And you probably want to hide that rogers.com email address.

2006-08-17 13:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he played u thus causing u to put your marriage in jeopardy (face it-u cheated on your husband)-if he calls again, hang up on him & hope your husband never finds out what u did

2006-08-14 21:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0 0

WELL you had your little thing, now let it go. you have a man at home that loves you and the baby. let it go hes just playing you and he will do it again and again. FOR EVERYBODY !!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-14 21:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0 0

What do you mean, "What should I do?"...you've already done it. Like I tell my ex that cheated on me...."Its not what your doing or what you can do that matters, it's what you have already done that hurts."

2006-08-14 22:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0 0

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