me and my boyfriend have been friends for about a year and have been dating almost 6 months. Everything had been going great, but today i started school and my new job so i was tired when i went over his house. i dint really feel like haveing sex so i told him. so he got all grumpy and i didnt want to leave like that so i was asking him to talk to me, but all he kept saying was he was mad and that i should just leave. so i did, and then i get home and hes deleated al the pictures of us off his myspace and says that he doesnt want to be in a relationship like this. and serously bothing was wrong yesterday this al happened in a matter of 2 hours. should i be baming my self for this happening or is he just to needy?
2006-08-14 14:40:42 · 26 answers · asked by devyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is a boy, not a man. If you want a boy, go please him into letting you back in. If you want a man, leave him alone.
P.S.
It's not easy or fashionable, but it is true nonetheless:
Saving sex until the ultimate commitment (marriage) weeds out the boys from the men, and prevents such emotional entanglements.
2006-08-14 14:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no no no! Don't blame yourself! If he cannot respect the fact that you are tired and don't feel like having sex and if he throws a big fit and removes your pictues and so on and so forth, then he has some issues! It shows that he only wanted you for one thing and one thing only. That does not indicate true love.
You deserve better. you want a man that is going to love you and respect you. Any loving and respecting man would accept the fact that his wife or girlfriend is tired and he would let her relax.
He's a jerk! He honestly is and he's very immature.
2006-08-14 21:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in the wrong here. He is a jerk and your relationship wasn't really a relationship if he broke up with you and acted like an *** because you didn't want to have sex. Obviously he was with you because of the sex and when he wasn't getting it he decided to be ridiculous. Be glad he did it and move on and find a real man.
2006-08-14 21:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault.
Get your education, and congrats on the new job.
You need to be able to support yourself, and be independent.
I am 25, I know that is not that old, but I was young and dumb at one time. I got married the first time when I was 18, and my ex didn't want me to work or get an education, so I put it off. Then the day came that I found out he was cheating on me. There I was stuck, with no way to support myself. And honestly wasn't very happy with myself. So, luckily, I had my family to lean on. I had to get a low income job, and try to support myself at the age of 22. I felt trapped. Get that education........
That is very important. If he can't understand then he don't deserve you.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-14 21:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control freak alert! Not your fault, not even a tiny tiny bit! I'm male and I'd be ashamed to act like he did! He has no right to get grumpy just cos you don't feel like sex. Tell him if he keeps that up then he'll never sleep with you again - if he continues, drop him and find someone who isn't on a power trip.
Harsh, but you cannot accept that, not even once.
2006-08-14 21:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me all he wants from you is sex, and when you dont he rejects you.there is more to an relation ship than just sex.its called caring about the others feelings and understanding them.sex you can get anytime if you really want it, but love from the heart is rare to find..
2006-08-14 21:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to get over his lil queeny ***** fit. Either he's all about the sex or maybe he has major rejection issues. anyway you look at it it's not your fault.. I'm not sure what set him off but I'm sure he's going to feel like a dumbass later about it. Do you want to be with a spaz?
2006-08-14 21:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point he's just thinking of himself. It's his loss not yours. Besides guy's don't know how good they've had it until they've lost it. Hang in there girl you'll be alright. Don't you dare blame yourself, besides when he'sdone being mad he's gonna wish he hadn't left you in the first place.
2006-08-14 21:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all he wants you for is sex. Is he the best you can do? And I think he was probably looking for an excuse to dump you and found it.
2006-08-14 21:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough info to go off of really but he sounds like a jerk. Is this the first incident you've had like that? Good luck!
2006-08-14 21:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixglbtq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋