confused about myself?

Question

ok my friend is bi and he thinks that i am bi because like i fool around with my guy friends and now i am wondering about myself and starting to think that i am bi. i am scared that if i am bi that all of my guy and girl friends wont look at me the same way and that my family wont look at me the same way either. can you please help me. i am so confused

Answer 1

I assume your a guy. Your clearly bi-curious since you've fooled around with your guy friends. Be yourself and except the truth about your sexuality. Since your bi-curious you might as well test to see if your bisexual. If your attracted to females sexually, as well as men, your then bisexual. If your family is understanding, then talk with them. If they aren't understanding type people, then you should wait and think further about how you would like to approach them with your discovery about yourself. But say nothing until you actually know the truth.

If your friends don't like you anymore or treat you differently, then they're clearly not your real friends. Why hold onto people who don't really care about you? Those who are your real friends will accept you for who you are.

Answer 2

Is it a verbal fooling around or a physical/sexual fooling around? You should know why you do what you do? You know your own heart and motives. In everyday life, guys verbally fool around wiht other guys. A physical fooling around (ie. sexual) is another thing. Possibly you were influenced by someone starting the verbal thing and you joined in and got caught up in the joke of it and started wondering. That does not sound like you're bi. Just sounds like the fooling around verbally situation caused you to question yourself. Or, a friend of yours threw out the question to you as a result of you fooling around (verbally) so much. If it's physical though, you should ponder your heart there. You'll know if you really feel the way about males as you already do about females. Your heart tells you, not any other part of your anatomy:) I am gay, not bi. I don't believe that you should have to 'give it a try' with the same sex to know your answer. Did you have to be with a female to know you liked females?

Answer 3

well I'm gay and 57years old...when i was much younger 10-13 or 14 i fooled around with the guys in the neighbourhood...I think maybe all guys do this...any way I'm gay and they're all straight now..were they bi? I dunno..but they seem happy being straight...was I bi? maybe....but I'm happy being gay...

So you have to figure out what really turns you on...you don't say how old you are so that makes it a little more difficult to answer your question...If you're young...just give yourself some slack..you have many years to find out who you are sexually...until then it's really nobody else's business.

Answer 4

If you are male having male to male sex,and you're also having male to female sex,you're bi. You didn't define "fool around" so I can only assume you're meaning some type of sexual encounters. If you aren't attracted to women at all,then I'd say you're gay. Any way you look at it,don't rush it,it's just a name,who really cares anyways? If you're of age of consent,then it's your business and nobody else's

Answer 5

No one can help you with this but yourself. None of us know what you are feeling. Have you ever been with the same sex? Only thing I can suggest is give it a try and if you like it then you know, if you don't then you know also. Sry I could'nt be of more help to you.

Answer 6

It is possible that they won't look at you the same way but who cares. Do what makes you happy. If they don't look at you in the same way are you going to deprive yourself of who you are and the happiness you enjoy?

Answer 7

if u r bi and you tell the closest pple to you, and they freak out and dont like you anymore, or are uncomfortable around you, i kno im gonna sound like ur mom er sumthing, but maybe they're not true frenz, cuz, i mean, it shudn't matter what sex you're attracted to, at least thats wat i think, i have 2 gay guy frenz, and 1 lezbo frend, and i dont have a problem with them, noone shud you're still a person you kno? if they freak out try to explain that to them!


much love
good luck

Answer 8

You gotta be you.
Tammi Dee

Answer 9

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