2006-08-14 14:26:01 · 20 answers · asked by hellsbells 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
believe it or not, some people are a little embarrassed by talking about such a sensitive subject. she wants to tell you, but she might be scared that you would laugh or have a bad reaction to what she tells you. just make her feel as comfortable as possible, reminding her that you are her husband and that you want to know her fantasies so that you can satisfy her. make her feel as loved and accepted as possible, but don't pressure her, she will tell you when she is ready to.
2006-08-14 14:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but sometimes women don't have any sexual fantasies. They may have been raised thinking that women don't do that.
Maybe she is embarrassed by telling them. Maybe they are private. Maybe she thinks you will be hurt if she says she fantasizes about another man.
2006-08-14 21:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precisely because they are fantasies. Some people prefer to keep them a private delight. Others are too uptight to share.
2006-08-14 21:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by tampamar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are embarrassed about having them.
And would not dream of admitting them to anyone.
And probably would not even tell their best friend about them.
I for one have never, and will never tell anyone about some of
mine. Not even my hubby of 5 yrs! It is just not something
nice women talk about.......
2006-08-14 21:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.......she just see them as fantasies and wont make a big deal of it......if she tells you. she might know your reaction....maybe she knows better! Fantasies are fantasies.....now..if she wants to make them reality...that;s different!
2006-08-14 21:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by maru_artmarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are all the fantasy she needs.
2006-08-14 21:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by ophelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would embarrass her to say them out loud. Or then again, maybe they don't include you.... Is she shy? Ask her to write them down in a letter to you. That's always easier than saying it face to face. Then you can surprise her by acting one out.
2006-08-14 21:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men say that they would like their wives to also be freaks, but that's only to a certain extent. Trust me--you don't want to know.
2006-08-14 23:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because she is embarrassed. Some women are funny about that kinda stuff. They are raised differently
2006-08-14 21:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by researchtissue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is a freak and is embarrassed by her fantasies
2006-08-14 21:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋