ok so this guys J and me like each other. But he has a girl. he asked me out before that but something went wrong... J still likes me and we always kiss and are all over each other and stuff. for his girl and i dont know each other. and him and M , his girl haven't done anything yet.
idk what to do cuz this situation is pretty weird. any advice?
2006-08-14 14:20:38 · 15 answers · asked by punk_tothemax 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
have fun.. there's no reason to worry about who's committed to who.. but I wouldn't suggest having sex with ANY gut that isn't calling himself yours and yours only
2006-08-14 14:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you so much why is he still with this other girl? Maybe he just wants from you what he can not get from her.
Stop kissing and being all over each other. Do not give the milk for free! From the old saying, "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free."
Have some respect, and tell him it is you or her- not both!
If he had any respect for you (or the other girl), he would not put either of you in this situation.
2006-08-14 14:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by jimsdaughter3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there punk! Just wanted to give a li'l somethin to brighten up your days. well, heres the thing honey, you're right about the situation being weird. but you can make other choices. J isn't the only one out there. What kind of guy likes you, kisses you all over but ''HAS'' a girl! I mean, alert! alert! this guy doesn't like you like he used to. If he's stupid enough to cheat on this other girl, then he's dump enough to get caught...take it from me, I've been there. The girl may not know you yet, but eventually she will and things might get messy. So you don't want to end up being the one getting blamed on.
2006-08-14 14:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by verona_k924 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....it's not right of you to be messing around with a guy that already has a girlfriend, that's pretty low. How would you like if YOU Had a boyfriend and some girl started messing around with HIM? Think about it. It would hurt. Imagine how that poor girl would feel if she found out that her boyfriend was cheating with someone.
2006-08-14 14:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. Obviously, he isnt really interested in either of you...and what can you expect long term? Him to do the same thing to you that he is doing to his girl right now...would you wanna be in her postion when or if she finds out whats going on? Been there done that, it's not pretty. find someone who'll apperciate you and only you!
2006-08-14 14:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by JJ82JJ05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girl and he's all over you, then obviously he is a cheater and a loser....why would you want someone like that, he will do the same thing to u....use u and break your heart
and just so you know, by messing with him while you know he has a girl pretty much puts you in $lut catagory......be happy his girl hasn't slapped the crap out of you yet, because you sure do deserve it. wise up and grow up.
2006-08-14 16:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by TRU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do unto others as you would have done unto you. If you were his girlfriend, and he was kissing another girl behind your back - what would you do? Figure it out know, becuase if one day you do call yourself our girlfriend, I'd place a lot of money that you'll find yourself in that very situation.
2006-08-14 14:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by coolnessa8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he really cares about you, he will break up with the other girl. It's not nice, but it's what you have to do. If he's not willing to give her up for you, then you should keep your options open. Find a boyfriend who will commit to you and you alone.
2006-08-14 14:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by q&a_08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you that much then he'll break up with M and you can be together. Don't lessen yourself moraly for a guy. You know he has a girl and you wouldn't want your man cheating on you so don't let her man do it to her. Plus, if he'll cheat on her then he'll cheat on you.
2006-08-14 14:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Allison R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from weird guys and weird situations...it is not in your best interest, only his.
2006-08-18 08:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone girl. if it was ment 2 be 4 ya'll 2 be together he will brake up with his girl friend. but u need 2 tell him 2 choose who he want u ar his girl friend......LIL MA
2006-08-14 14:28:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋