2006-08-14 14:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by hellsbells 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know, this is actually a really complicated question when it comes down to it. I married my husband because I thought I loved him. We had an 8 month old son at the time, and I felt it more important that we tried to be a family.
I think I wanted to love him and to some degree did, but at 22 do you really know what love is?
We had only been married for 7 months when I found out he had cheated on me before we got married.
Again I stayed because I found out I was pregnant again. For awhile things were good and there was love there, but not really love love.
I realized today that I have stayed all these years because he is all I know. Do I love him? Yes, but I hate him at the same time.
We fell into a comfort zone and i made myself believe that this is what love is.
I ignored all the bad that he had done to me and continued to tell myself that I loved him.
Here's what no one wants to here. I love him but I don't think I'm in love with him. Not anymore.
So really you are asking a very loaded question because things change over the course of a marriage.
I know it's probably not what you were looking for as an answer but that's how it goes, for me anyway.
I will continue to try to find that love again though!
2006-08-14 20:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. never heard of that before in my life! only ppl who fall in love but when they got married, they're just smacking each other!
2006-08-14 15:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i Love him but he did`t love me . he love his ex wife.
2006-08-14 14:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO
2006-08-14 14:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋