Ok, I'm 15 years old so bare with me here..
I've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for five months now. He told me he was in love with me the first week we met. Till this day he still does. He treats me good. I love everything about him..
But some times he can be very rude to me..
For example he tells me things like Im stupid or other hateful things..but he tells me "Oh im sorry, I feel bad I didn't mean to be mean" he says he thinks it's funny..I've told him I don't like it & he still does it..I know it's his sense of humor & maybe I should go find some one else..yes yes, I know all of that..but what if you don't want some one else. & you love him with all of your heart. Again, he treats me good besides the rude comments every now & then..Should I just ignore that one flaw & stay with him? I mean no ones perfect..I just thought I would ask for a lil edvice...Some one plz, give me some good edvice..
2006-08-14 14:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Savanna, when will young women learn that any sort of abuse, even a little bit, is still abuse! Tell me something, ok? You say you have been going with him for five months, right? Would you have let him talk to you like this if he had walked up to you as a stranger six months ago and said the same mean things? I bet not. So, why would you take it now? You teach people how to treat you. No matter how hard it is, stand up for yourself and let him know it is not okay to talk to you this way, and if he does it again, you are out of there! Then follow your words with action. And I don't want to make it sound easy, cause it ain't. You may not think so now, and be afraid you won't be able to get anyone else. He may even try to convince you of this. But, believe me, I know, there is someone else just around the corner who will love you and treat you with respect, and whom you will love more for being respectful of you and your feelings.
Good luck
2006-08-14 14:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you the truth, he does not love you. He may be interested in you. but if any of his comment is mean and rude, there is no way that he loves you. Wake up before you stuck with him deeper. You deserve someone who treats you like a princess.
2006-08-14 17:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by 1001Questions 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someday...when ur a wellfare mother sitting on the porch of ur public housing unit u will ponder wether he loved u or not. But for now quit worring about that s hit and focus on ur school..what kind of parents do u have anyways?
2006-08-14 14:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not enough evidence to know if the guy loves you for sure. But if he truely is in love with you, he would not repeat the things that he knows you hate to see and hear from him.
2006-08-14 19:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by jacky t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wont know because guys are really good at hiding their feelings and you are so young you dont know what love is yet take it slow.
2006-08-14 14:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youll know the right time...... im to young for this but youll know it. your verry happy when your around him....he never made you angry
2006-08-14 14:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by war <3 war eagles! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is not a maybe thing, you know when u're in love
2006-08-14 14:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by shak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋