i'm a fourth year college student. now, i always see this guy when im still on my 2nd year. he is handsome. i assume many college girls have a crush on him.
on my third year, i found out that we have the same college course and then circumstances in my school made him my classmate.
i said to myself, wow what a coincidence, now i have the opportunity to be his friend and somehow we will get to know each other. but nothing of tha happened. he is a shy guy and always sticks to his friends only. and im not the type who can put up a good conversation
from what i've heard, he still doesnt have a girlfriend, and that made me wonder. with his good looks, he can easily have one. if i can be in his position i will take advantage of my looks.
everytime a girl introduces herself to him, i always wish that he will not take her seriously i only want him for myself.
im not yet out, in my family or in school. im not even sure if im gay, because sometimes, im also attracted to women.
2006-08-14 13:50:28 · 7 answers · asked by harry 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmmm, he could be one of those str8 guys who are just in college to study. Or he could just be quiet and shy and not have the social skills to ask people out. Use your best judgment, or maybe give him a signal that you like him like a pat on the back or a shoulder squeeze and see his reaction. If you're alone maybe you could even give him a quick slap on the butt and see what he does, but make sure you act like you're joking in case he is really straight. Does your school have a Gay Lesbian Group/Club? Maybe you can go to a meeting saying you're Q, questioning, and ask them questions. Good luck.
2006-08-14 16:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by dnnzak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get "looks" from him? I asked that question once and that was the response and for me it was Yes! Do you get looks? That's a start but just a start. He may be wondering why you are staring at him.
As for not knowing, tell me this, what makes your pants happy (if you know what I mean....)?
It ain't that complicated man.
2006-08-14 21:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by John16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him them go and claim him (sorry am watching Lord of the Rings and..........nevermind), anyways the only way to know is to ask. Other whise you'd just be making goo goo eyes at the guy and looking stupid, with your tounge hanging out all pink and naked.
2006-08-14 20:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by My Optinion Counts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to your placee, accidentally leave agay mag out and see how he reacts when he sees it
2006-08-15 00:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is to keep him as a friend; I know that this process sucks, but it is necessary. And by all means, if you want to keep him close, DEVELOP GOOD CONERSATION SKILLS!!!
2006-08-14 21:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer gay, he's probably not, find other gay guys to rock your world until you don't think about him anymore.
2006-08-14 21:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET TO KNOW HIM AND SEE. I BET IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU. GO FOR IT....HAVE SOME FUN. IF IT DOESENT WORK OUT, WHAT HAVE YOU LOST? IF IT WORKS OUT, YOU HAVE EVERYTHING TO GAIN!
2006-08-14 22:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by eddie d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋