How did it start, how did you cope with your behavior and how did it turn out?
2006-08-14 13:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Another lifetime ago, I did unmercifally cheat on my ex-fiance. It made me feel like I was even because, no matter how much he said he would never cheat on me, he always did. Not with aquaintances but with complete strangers he met. I did the same and felt satisfaction. We did not trust eachother and ultimately the relationship failed (surprise!). I am now married and only have the occasional fantasy of cheating although I could never act on it, remembering how I felt back then. Cheating really hurts and the relationship is never the same no matter how much counseling and nonsense you go through.
2006-08-14 13:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did. it started because i wasn't getting any attention at home.at first it was great. i justified it as just the sex i wasn't getting at home.then i realized that i was disgusted with my own behavior. so i ended it soon after it began.i put it out of my mind and haven't really thought about it in 4 years. i made a mistake. i wont ever make that mistake twice.
2006-08-14 14:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by jeepgirl5371 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married three times and never cheated on my spouse,,
Marriage is hard Enough with out that haunting you. dont do it..and if you have already done it..ask the lord to forgive you and never do it or speak of it aging to anyone,,except maybe a doctor.
2006-08-14 14:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've ever been on the other side of that question (the one who has been cheated on), you'd never even wish it on someone you hated.
2006-08-14 13:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes.I'm cheating on hi, now, it makes me feel bad.But it's something that happens even though people say it doesn't.We're not perfect.
2006-08-14 13:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO DISCUSS THIS BUT YES I HAVE AND I HAVE BEEN OK WITH IT BECAUSE OF ALL THE C^$%&^ i HAVE TAKEN IN THE LONG LONG TIME I HAVE BEEN MARRIED..I 'M OK BUT HE IS NOT HE THROWS IT IN MY FACE EVERY DAY..BUT I HAVE NICE MEMORIES OF IT AND NOT OF HIM SO I COPE
2006-08-14 14:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by lindaann_56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never cheated on my current boyfriend, and i would never!! but if i did it would make me feel horrible
2006-08-14 13:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
paranoid...but it all worked out well
2006-08-14 13:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iwant to do it again
2006-08-14 14:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by twoine m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH AND I FELT LIKE SHYT.
2006-08-14 13:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by SEXY CHICANITA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋